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What Is Reactive Abuse…And Can It Be Prevented?

Laura Silverstein

Understanding the dynamic that leads to this escalation is critical in effectively dealing with it.

Why Behavioral Health Is the Hidden Foundation of Your Relationship

Alexander Elguren

Explore the vital link between individual behavioral health and relationship success. Learn why professional guidance can be key to breaking unhelpful or toxic patterns and building a lasting bond.

Have Low Conflict Conversations about Money and Enhance Intimacy

Terry Gaspard

Money doesn’t have to cause tension. Discover how low-conflict money conversations can build trust, emotional safety, and deeper intimacy.

The Perpetual Problem of Mismatched Sex Drives

Jordan Rullo

Learn how to maintain connection and intimacy even when you and your partner have different sex drives.

Partnership Over Power: Why Accepting Influence Is So Important

Alex Spangler

Accepting influence means taking your partner into consideration when you make decisions. It is a defining feature of happy couples.

Relationship Burnout

Kendra Han

Learn the signs of relationship burnout and how to recover from it. You may feel stuck, but there are proven ways to reconnect.

Overcoming the Fear of Confrontation in Relationships: How Conflict Can Impact Your Bond

The Gottman Institute

Fear of confrontation is a common reason for conflict avoidance in your relationship. However, when you can use strategies to have healthy confrontations, your relationship will improve dramatically.

10 Communication Exercises for Couples to Have Better Relationships

The Gottman Institute

Discover 10 effective communication exercises designed for couples to strengthen relationships and marriages. These practical, expert-backed strategies help couples connect, understand, and communicate more effectively.

Should I Get a Divorce?

Cheryl Fraser

Consider these factors and get help before making a life altering decision.

Is the Honeymoon Phase a Myth? Understanding Love’s Most Romanticized Stage

The Gottman Institute

The honeymoon phase might be ruining your relationship. Surprising research reveals why chasing early passion could be sabotaging your chance at lasting love.

How to Plan a Successful Relationship: Building a Partnership That Lasts

The Gottman Institute

Learn how to plan a successful relationship by setting a strong foundation of friendship and intentionally working to deepen connection.

The 5 Most Important Talks to Have Before Marriage

The Gottman Institute

Before you get marrried, there are some must-have conversations to ensure your long term relationship success.

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