Relationship resources for couples from the Gottman Institute: relationship and marriage advice, tips, products and a network of therapists. If you are just dating, newlyweds or newly committed, empty nesters, considering divorce or just looking for ideas to improve communication with your partner, the Gottmans 40 years of research can help.
Building a Life Together
You’ve decided to spend forever together. Congratulations!
Whether you’re committing to each other after a long time of casual dating or you’ve just swept each other off your feet, committing to each other is a big step, but don’t worry. With more than 40 years of research into how relationships work, the Gottmans are here to give you the tools you need for happily ever after.
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Feeling Seen and Heard
Learn how to become a better listener and how to Turn Towards your partner
Do you feel seen, heard, and valued by your partner? One of the many benefits of a happy and healthy relationship is the feeling that you have someone who really “gets” you. But everyone has areas they could improve on, or be more intentional in their relationship. That’s what Feeling Seen and Heard, from the Gottman Relationship Coach, is all about.
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Loving Out Loud.
Exercises and videos to help you speak, show, and share your love.
Take your relationship from “meh” to marvelous. Change up your routines and get into the habit of loving out loud—let the Gottmans show you how. In this collection of videos, exercises, and conversation starters, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through science-based, relationship skill-building tools.
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How to Make Your Relationship Work
Research-based Foundations for a Lifetime of Love.
If you’re feeling disconnected from your partner and feel like you don’t know how to make your relationship work and don’t know where to start, you’ve come to the right place. In these programs you will learn how do we predict the future of a relationship, how to build a Sound Relationship House and what to do when the destructive Four Horsemen enter your relationship.
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Dealing with Conflict
Change your conflict conversations.
In “Dealing with Conflict” Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional.
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What to Do After a Fight
Conflict is normal in relationships.
So you just had a fight. Now what? First of all, don’t worry. Conflict is normal in relationships. The key to lasting love is how you manage conflict when it occurs. In the latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the science behind conflict and what you can do to course-correct. You’ll learn how to stop conflict from spiraling by identifying the signs of Flooding, what repair attempts look like in your relationship, and what triggers you and your partner.
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Workshops
Based upon Dr. Gottman’s four decades of research with thousands of couples, our workshops are designed for couples of every age, ability, and orientation. You will learn practical skills to improve the friendship in your relationship and help you manage conflict in a positive way. Start with The Art and Science of Love and deepen your understanding at The Art and Science of Love 2.
Gottman Store
Discover our popular relationship books and other resources for couples, including the New York Times bestseller, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, which has sold over one million copies in more than a dozen languages.
Gottman Love Notes
Love Notes is a research-based newsletter featuring the latest and greatest from The Gottman Institute.
Find a Therapist
Use the Gottman Referral Network to easily find a Gottman-trained specialist near you.
Gottman Connect
The new Gottman Connect platform brings the assessment process online and provides tools to use through the therapeutic process.