Relationship resources for couples from the Gottman Institute.
What to Do After a Fight
So you just had a fight. Now what? First of all, don’t worry. Conflict is normal in relationships. The key to lasting love is how you manage conflict when it occurs. In the latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the science behind conflict and what you can do to course-correct. You’ll learn how to stop conflict from spiraling by identifying the signs of Flooding, what repair attempts look like in your relationship, and what triggers you and your partner.
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Loving Out Loud.
Exercises and videos to help you speak, show, and share your love.
Take your relationship from “meh” to marvelous. Change up your routines and get into the habit of loving out loud—let the Gottmans show you how. In this collection of videos, exercises, and conversation starters, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through science-based, relationship skill-building tools.
EXCLUSIVE: Hear from Drs. John and Julie Gottman live! Purchase Loving Out Loud before April 1, 2021, and receive access to this exclusive webinar. Details will be provided post-purchase. Webinar is scheduled for April 2, 2021.
The Gottman Relationship Coach - Dealing with Conflict
Change your conflict conversations.
In “Dealing with Conflict” Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional.
EXCLUSIVE: Hear from Drs. John and Julie Gottman live! Purchase the Gottman Relationship Coach before April 1, 2021, and receive access to this exclusive webinar. Details will be provided post purchase. Webinar is scheduled for April 2, 2021.
The Gottman Relationship Coach: How to Make Your Relationship Work
Research-based Foundations for a Lifetime of Love.
If you’re feeling disconnected from your partner and feel like you don’t know how to make your relationship work and don’t know where to start, you’ve come to the right place. In these programs you will learn how do we predict the future of a relationship, how to build a Sound Relationship House and what to do when the destructive Four Horsemen enter your relationship.
EXCLUSIVE: Hear from Drs. John and Julie Gottman live! Purchase the Gottman Relationship Coach before April 1, 2021, and receive access to this exclusive webinar. Details will be provided post purchase. Webinar is scheduled for April 2, 2021.
Workshops
Based upon Dr. Gottman’s four decades of research with thousands of couples, our workshops are designed for couples of every age, ability, and orientation. You will learn practical skills to improve the friendship in your relationship and help you manage conflict in a positive way. Start with The Art and Science of Love and deepen your understanding at The Art and Science of Love 2.
Gottman Store
Discover our popular relationship books and other resources for couples, including the New York Times bestseller, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, which has sold over one million copies in more than a dozen languages.
Love Notes Newsletter
Love Notes is a research-based newsletter featuring the latest and greatest from The Gottman Institute.
Find a Therapist
Use the Gottman Referral Network to easily find a Gottman-trained specialist near you.
Gottman Connect
The new Gottman Connect platform brings the assessment process online and provides tools to use through the therapeutic process.