conflict

The Sound Relationship House: The Positive Perspective

Dr. Ellie Wilde

A fundamental principle of maintaining The Positive Perspective in your relationship is to let your partner influence you.

Avoiding Loss Aversion In Arguments

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Loss aversion is what happens when partners invest so much into their disputes that neither one can stand the thought of losing.

Activities to Help You Manage Conflict

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Conflict is inevitable, but these tips serve as a jumping off point to managing it well.

Overcoming Gridlocked Conflict

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Almost all gridlocked conflicts stem from unfulfilled dreams.

Managing Conflict: Recognizing Gridlock

Dr. Ellie Wilde

By using this simple checklist, you can determine whether or not you have reached total gridlock in any of those infuriatingly repetitive problems you may have in your relationship.

Managing Conflict: Solvable vs. Perpetual Problems

Michael Fulwiler

Knowing the difference between the types of problems all couples have is the key to avoiding gridlock.

Parenting as Your Kids Grow Up

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Managing conflict well and being your child's emotion coach are just a few effective parenting tips from the Gottmans.

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