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Discover our popular relationship tools, books and other resources for couples. All of our products are based on over five decades of research into what makes relationships work well, and what makes relationships succeed.

We offer inspiring and educational experiences designed to enhance the well-being of relationships, all based on the popular Gottman Method. Drs. John and Julie Gottman have taken the research and science-based relationship building skills and communication tools and put them together into programs that you can work through at your own pace.

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Original price was: $250.00.Current price is: $199.00.

Transform Your Relationship

The Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship health with the research-based Gottman Assessment, analyze five key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection—all on your schedule and from anywhere.

The Adviser uses the legendary scientific Gottman Method to help you understand what’s really going on in your relationship—and gives you exactly what you need to improve it.

$599.00

Created by “the Einstein of Love” (Psychology Today), this two-day workshop is grounded on what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable. See for yourself why millions of couples worldwide have benefited from the Gottman Method.

Quote from participant in most recent Live Virtual Workshop:

The Art and Science of Love workshop- where do I begin? It was an absolute stellar workshop. We were looking forward to this for weeks, and it exceeded our expectations! It was well-structured, and well-organized, and provided a wealth of information with real-time demonstrations of how to work through specific scenarios. The outstanding support that was provided throughout the exercises with therapists on standby- WOW! Priceless!

Includes the Art & Science of Love box set.  Please allow time for shipping.  Please Note: This is a live online event. To attend, you will need a reliable internet connection. Our staff will reach out to you with your personal registration and access information.

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $149.00.

Drs John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce this  Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Conflict.

The first program, “Dealing with Conflict”  teaches the basics of communication in conflict. You will learn which of the problems your relationship faces are solvable, and which you may continue to encounter. If any of these perpetual problems have you stuck, the Gottmans can help you get “unstuck” and understand each other’s perspectives. “Dealing with Conflict” helps prepare you for the regular, inevitable moments of friction that are bound to arise in any relationship.

The second program, “What to Do After a Fight” teaches how to navigate more difficult arguments and the feelings that come along with them. If “Dealing with Conflict” makes regular communication “smooth sailing,” “What to Do After a Fight” helps you address rough waters to keep your relationship from capsizing. Often, more serious arguments arise because they touch on values and beliefs one or both of you hold dear. Explore what’s underneath the storm with the game-changing exercises contained in this program. 

NOTE: If you already purchased “Dealing with Conflict” or “Making Up After an Argument” individually and want to take advantage of this special offer, make sure you are logged in to your Gottman Connect account and the price difference will automatically be deducted from your purchase of the second program.

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $149.00.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce a new Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Love.  With more than 40 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, All About Love, which combines three of our most popular products: “How to Make Your Relationship Work,” “Loving Out Loud,” and “Building a Life Together.”

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $149.00.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce a new Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Intimacy.  With more than 40 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new All About Intimacy Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, which combines three of our most popular products: Loving Out LoudFeeling Seen and Heard, Enriching Your Sex Life

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

You’ve decided to spend forever together. Congratulations! Making a commitment to one another is a time to celebrate and prepare for the new adventure ahead of you. This new journey is one of Trust and Commitment as you forge a path towards lasting love. You’ll have shared goals and new dreams to hope for, and plenty of fun and play. Don’t forget to soak in all the intimacy and romance along the way! So, take each other’s hands and get ready. Whether you’re committing to each other after a long time of casual dating or you’ve just swept each other off your feet, committing to each other is a big step, but don’t worry. With more than 40 years of research into how relationships work, the Gottmans are here to give you the tools you need for happily ever after.

This new program will help you learn:

  • The difference between dreams and goals
  • How to have conversations around your hopes for your lives, both individually and together
  • The meaning of trust and commitment, and how to increase both in your relationship
  • How to go “all in” on your relationship, and the fruits that it can bear
  • How to introduce more fun, play, and adventure in your lives
  • How to create your own Rituals of Connection

“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Limited Time Offer!

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

Do you feel seen, heard, and valued by your partnerOne of the many benefits of a happy and healthy relationship is the feeling that you have someone who really “gets” you. But everyone has areas they could improve on, or be more intentional in their relationship. That’s what Feeling Seen and Heard, from the Gottman Relationship Coach, is all about. Learn from Drs. John and Julie Gottman how to be seen and heard, how to become a better listener and how to Turn Towards your partner more often in this series of videos and exercises.

When you show up for your partner, and when you feel seen and heard, your connection will deepen and you can even reduce your stress! 

This new program will help you learn:

  • How to identify and share your truth
  • About what we call Bids for Connection, and the three ways you can respond to them
  • How to Turn Towards your partner to make your relationship successful.
  • A concept of an Emotional Bank Account and positive emotions, and how to
    increase the balance in your Emotional Bank Account
  • How to identify and express your needs in the relationship
  • How to be a great listener
  • How to have a stress-reducing conversation

Limited Time Offer!

“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Original price was: $119.00.Current price is: $79.00.

Research-based Foundations for a Lifetime of Love.  The Gottman Relationship Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience designed to enhance the well-being of relationships. Participants will be guided through research-based tools and communication skills that can transform relationships—all based on the popular Gottman Method. The first program, “How to Make Your Relationship Work”, is now available and includes:

  • The Gottman Method and How to Make Your Relationship Work
  • How do we predict the future of a relationship?
  • How to build a Sound Relationship House
  • What to do when the destructive Four Horsemen enter your relationship

“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

In “Dealing with Conflict” Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional.

In this program you will learn:

  • Why you keep fighting about the same things, and how to get “unstuck.”
  • How to address recurring issues within your relationship.
  • How to approach conflict conversations gently, in a way that addresses specific issues.
  • How to identify what your feelings and experiences are around issues that are causing conflict, and how to gently bring them up with your partner.
  • How to understand your partner’s side of an issue, and how to get your partner to understand where you’re coming from.
  • How to examine the individual values, ideas, and beliefs that influence how you and your partner engage with the world around you.
  • More about your own emotions.

“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

So you just had an argument. Now what?  The latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, “Making Up After an Argument” includes a step-by-step exercise to help you and your partner process an argument and discover what you were really fighting about. In addition to our powerful “Aftermath of a Fight” exercise, “Making Up After an Argument” includes sections and exercises on feeling overloaded, taking effective breaks from conflict, and how to rebuild the lines of communication—even mid-argument. 

Solve the mystery of what you and your partner really argue about to restore, repair, and revitalize the communication in your relationship. This new program will help you learn:

  • How to process even the most difficult arguments and heal from them together.
  • What to do when you are feeling overwhelmed and overloaded, what we call “Flooding”.
  • What happens in your body when you are in conflict.
  • How to calm yourself down, in or out of conflict.
  • The importance of “repair attempts,” or ways to get the conversation back on track, plus how to notice and make them

Limited Time Offer!

“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

$45.00

Ever wonder what’s really going on in your relationship?

Tired of getting into fights and unsure what to do next? Or perhaps you’re curious about which areas of your relationship need improvement?

The all-new Gottman Assessment, powered by the legendary scientific Gottman Method, can help you understand the state of your relationship—and get you the help you need to improve it.

Original price was: $79.00.Current price is: $49.00.

Learn how to foster intimacy and safety in your relationship and how doing so can lead to amazing sex in the new Gottman Relationship Coach, “Enriching Your Sex Life”. In this never-before-seen series of videos and conversation-starting exercises, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you and your partner through opening up communication around sex, learning your partner’s preferences, exploring sensuality, and building sexual safety in your relationship.

$49.00

A new and improved version of our Seven Principles Couples Set for use in workshops, clinical practices, and at home. Physical Materials.

Original price was: $199.00.Current price is: $149.00.

Now on Sale! Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s Art & Science of Love couples workshop is available online for you and your partner to take together from the comfort of your own home.

You and your partner will learn how to foster respect, affection, and closeness in your relationship. You will build and share a deeper connection with each other. You’ll learn how to keep conflict discussions calm, how to break through conflicted gridlock, and how to strengthen and maintain the gains in your relationship

$30.00

Improve your relationship in 30 days! Backed by over 50 years of research, the 30 Days to a Better Relationship challenge will help you reconnect with your partner and bring more positivity into your relationship. The tools and exercises, delivered once a day for 30 days by email, build on one another and take five minutes or less to complete.

 

$13.00

Take turns finding out how your partner really feels.

$16.00

Make continued romance and sex a priority with your partner using these cards developed from our world-renowned couples workshop!

Please check out the Gottman Relationship Coach, Enriching Your Sex Life for a related Gottman product.

$30.00$100.00

The pocket-sized guides in this folder are among our most effective for helping couples improve or strengthen their relationship.

$15.00

The Love Prescription, Seven Days to More Intimacy, Connection, and Joy.

New York Times Bestseller.  A simple yet powerful plan to transform your relationship in seven days, from New York Times–bestselling authors Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman.

The Love Prescription distills the Gottmans’ work into a bite-size, seven-day action plan with easy, immediately actionable steps.

Expand your skills: pair The Love Prescription with the Gottman Relationship Coach presented by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

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Take the next step with Gottman Connect. This digital platform hosts a set of powerful Gottman tools backed by science to help you heal and strengthen your relationship.

$13.00

Good family planning should require answering these questions!

$13.00

Take turns finding out how your partner really feels.

Original price was: $15.00.Current price is: $10.00.

Send love near and far! Based on the Gottmans’ Sound Relationship House model, this set of postcards provides 32 opportunities to say “I love you,” “I miss you,” or “I’m thinking of you.”

$30.00

How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection

Fight Right, the New York Times Best Selling book from Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman and Dr. John Gottman

LEARN THE 5 SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL COUPLES

Conflict is the top reason couples seek help—but it’s also an opportunity for greater intimacy, deeper connection, and lasting love according to this essential guide from the world’s leading relationship scientists and bestselling authors of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work and Eight Dates.

Click here for free Fight Right resources and products from the Gottmans on how to turn conflict into connection.

On sale now!

$16.00

Increase intimacy and improve connection in any relationship.

$20.00

For anyone who wants to blend Gottman research on relationships with a Biblical perspective in order to build stronger relationships.

$20.00

Integrate Quranic verses and ahadith into your work with couples!

$25.00

Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

$17.00

This New York Times bestselling book is an overview of the concepts, behaviors, and skills that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.

$12.95

Una guía absolutamente imprescindible para todas aquellas personas que quieren recuperar o fortalecer una pareja en crisis o, simplemente, monótona.

$23.00

Scientifically proven secrets from the “Love Lab” about what women really want.

$16.00

A revolutionary five-step program for repairing troubled relationships — with spouses and lovers, family members, friends, and even your colleagues.