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conflict

The Digital Age 10 Tips to Avoiding Conflict

10 Tips to Prevent Conflicts Online: A Guide for the Digital Age

Ellie Lisitsa

Getting into warfare over text or social media is a losing fight.

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The Digital Age Whats Beneath the Conflict

The Digital Age: What’s Beneath the Conflict?

Ellie Lisitsa

In our last post on The Gottman Relationship Blog, we introduced the topic of Conflict in Cyberspace. Today, we would like to explore the subject in greater depth.

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The Digital Age Conflict in Cyberspace

The Digital Age: Conflict in Cyberspace

Ellie Lisitsa

As you spar online, intimacy goes out the window.

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Making Sure Emotional Flooding Doesn’t Capsize Your Relationship

Ellie Lisitsa

Read how emotional flooding ignites your fight-or-flight mode and ways to avoid this so you don't derail your conflict management.

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Emotional Attraction: Maintaining Connection in Conflict Discussions

Ellie Lisitsa

Conflict can result in flooding and stonewalling. However, how you repair can build emotional attraction.

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The Antidotes

The Four Horsemen: The Antidotes

The Gottman Institute

Luckily, for every Horseman of the Apocalypse, there is an antidote.

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marital conflict

The Research: Patterns of Marital Conflict Predict Children’s Internalizing and Externalizing Behaviors Part II

Ellie Lisitsa

It is not the child’s temperament that predicts marital conflict, but rather the type of marital conflict that predicts a child’s temperament.

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marital conflict

The Research: Patterns of Marital Conflict Predict Children’s Internalizing and Externalizing Behaviors

Ellie Lisitsa

Parents whose conflicts are characterized by mutual hostility often produce children who are unable to wait their turn.

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Make Life Dreams Come True: Self-Discovery

Ellie Lisitsa

Follow this exercise where you play both the speaker and the listener to share the source behind conflict: life dreams and goals!

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Dreams within Conflict

Make Life Dreams Come True: Dreams Within Conflict

Ellie Lisitsa

Make each other's dreams come true.

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Moving Forward

Manage Conflict: Moving Forward

Ellie Lisitsa

The real predictor of a relationship’s failure is a couple’s inability to manage conflict in a healthy manner and to move forward.

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Triggers

Manage Conflict: Identifying Your Triggers

Ellie Lisitsa

Working on understanding each other’s triggers is one of the most important things that you can do to avoid hurting one another.

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