conflict

The Rhythm of Repair

Kim Lampson

Learn why partners have different timelines for repairing after conflict and how understanding your repair rhythm can strengthen your relationship.

Have Low Conflict Conversations about Money and Enhance Intimacy

Terry Gaspard

Money doesn’t have to cause tension. Discover how low-conflict money conversations can build trust, emotional safety, and deeper intimacy.

Overcoming the Fear of Confrontation in Relationships: How Conflict Can Impact Your Bond

The Gottman Institute

Fear of confrontation is a common reason for conflict avoidance in your relationship. However, when you can use strategies to have healthy confrontations, your relationship will improve dramatically.

10 Communication Exercises for Couples to Have Better Relationships

The Gottman Institute

Discover 10 effective communication exercises designed for couples to strengthen relationships and marriages. These practical, expert-backed strategies help couples connect, understand, and communicate more effectively.

Should I Get a Divorce?

Cheryl Fraser

Consider these factors and get help before making a life altering decision.

How to Solve Relationship Problems Without Breaking Up

The Gottman Institute

Arguments in a relationship are normal, but they also cause stress and unhappiness. Learn how to solve relationship problems and enhance your personal health and wellbeing.

What Is Nagging in a Relationship?

The Gottman Institute

Nagging in a relationship is a common dynamic that can be improved by communication about deeper issues.

My Partner Doesn’t Listen To Me: How To Feel Heard In Your Relationship

The Gottman Institute

Learn the reasons partners stop listening and what it means for your relationship. Here are practical strategies for transforming your communication patterns so that you can reconnect and feel heard.

5 Premarital Conversations to Help You Sustain Love

Katie Golem

Engagement is such an exciting time, but you should have these five premarital conversations before you tie the knot.

The Four Horsemen: Contempt

Ellie Lisitsa

Contempt is the worst of the four horsemen. It is the number one predictor of divorce, but it can be defeated.

Therapy Isn’t Something to Be Ashamed Of

Jessica Grace

Admitting you need help is not always easy, but everyone needs help sometimes, and reaching out for help is a courageous and strong act.

Why Do Couples Argue?

The Gottman Institute

Learn why couples argue and how to work through all of the common reasons for relationship arguments.

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