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Rituals of Gratitude

Jennifer Scott

Create rituals of connection around thankfulness using these four ideas.

Everyday Ways to Reconnect and Nurture Your Relationship

Margarita Tartakovsky

When stress leads to tension in your relationship, find ways to cultivate fondness and admiration.

Conversational Boundaries without Stonewalling

Anna Aslanian

Difficult conversations can lead to flooding. Here are steps to remain calm while staying present for yourself and your partner.

Rebuilding After Infidelity

Taylor Irvine

Research shows couples can move forward after an affair. But how?

More Than Money

Vagdevi Meunier

Disagreements about money often get stuck at the practical level and deeper levels of meaning, history, or world views are not explored or understood fully.

How to Use Mindfulness to Strengthen Your Relationships

Gillian Florence Sanger

Mindfulness practice helps to promote healthy and happy relationships

What to Do After an Affair (part 1)

Brandon Leuangpaseuth

After coming clean about an affair, Brandon and his partner learn how to rebuild their relationship.

Reviving Trust After an Affair (part 2)

Brandon Leuangpaseuth

Employing Gottman's Trust Revival Method in the aftermath of an affair.

I’m a Therapist, But I’m Also a Human

Real Relationships

Under the guise of “healthy communication,” I was actually destroying my own relationship.

Stepping Back to Save My Stepfamily

Real Relationships

All of the constructs I grew up with and believed I would carry on in my own family had to be thrown out the window. As much as I would like one, there is no guide on how to be a stepfamily—we are all too different.

I Met The Woman of My Dreams, She Lives 2,400 Miles Away

Real Relationships

Thanks to a combination of sobriety, introspection, therapy, and Kate’s support, I’m feeling more comfortable showing up authentically both inside and outside this relationship.

I Found Myself When I Lost My Ideology

Real Relationships

Everything I thought I knew about myself, my faith, my friendships, and my family was put on tilt when I decided to be true to who I am and pursue that woman.

A Happier Relationship Starts Today

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