Love & Relationships

All successful relationships are built on the same premise: The Sound Relationship House theory by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

Insights on Same-Sex Marriage from Julie Gottman

David and Constantino Khalaf

Dr. Julie Gottman performed the world’s first controlled study on children being raised in the homes of lesbian moms.

Creating Your Own Holiday Rituals

The Gottman Institute

Rituals give relationships meaning, especially during the holiday season.

How to Stay Connected as a Couple Through the Holidays

Kristen Manieri

Having a joyful, connected holiday season is absolutely possible.

A Vacation Survival Guide for Couples

David and Constantino Khalaf

If you haven't travelled together as a couple, do it as soon as possible.

Intimate Partner Violence and the #MeToo Movement

Mary Beth George

Let’s not forget the brave survivors of intimate partner violence. Their #MeToo stories matter, too.

We’ve Started Renewing Our Wedding Vows Every Year. Here’s Why

Kristen Manieri

This powerful ritual of connection will improve your relationship.

I Quit My Job to Get My Life Back

The Gottman Institute

Don’t just balance your work with your family, build it around them.

Connecting with Your Pain Could Save Your Life

Jenny TeGrotenhuis

A lack of connection will always yield disintegration in any system—particularly a relationship.

Before You Get Married, Watch This

Michael Fulwiler

Prince EA, a filmmaker, activist, and public speaker, created a beautiful video based on some of our core principles.

Why Conventional Marriage Wisdom Is Wrong

Chris Dollard

After researching thousands of couples for more than 40 years, these are some of the myths we’ve encountered most often.

How Millennials Are Redefining Marriage

The Gottman Institute

Millennials are certainly redefining not only when to get married, but what it means to them.

What Pride Means to the Gay Couples Institute

Chris Dollard

The Gay Couples Institute saw the need for specialized care for LGBTQ couples, and we provide support to their tribe members.

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