Love & Relationships

All successful relationships are built on the same premise: The Sound Relationship House theory by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

How To Feel Comfortable Expressing Sexual Desires With Your Partner

Kari Rusnak

Do you hate talking about sex? Here’s how to open up.

Help! My Partner Won’t Go to Therapy

Laura Silverstein

Is it possible for one person to improve a relationship on their own?

Invest in Yourself for Relationship Growth

The Gottman Institute

If you can’t keep it together, your relationship can’t either.

How I Stopped Trying to Control My Partner and Took Responsibility for My Own Happiness

Hailey Magee

"We must learn what actually lies in our sphere of control — and learn to live strictly within that sphere"

What are Your Core Beliefs and Needs? (and why it’s important to identify them)

Elizabeth Earnshaw

When it comes to conflict, knowing the issue underneath the problem is half the battle.

Managing Conflict through Friendship

Sinead Smyth

If you want to have better fights, be better friends.

3 Ways to Invest in Your Relationship

Jennifer Scott

Make deposits into the wealth of your relationship and see dividends in love.

Blame, Resentment, and Negative Sentiment Override

Jinashree Rajendrakumar

"Why does my partner hate me?"

Alignment vs. Resolutions

Brittini Carter

Instead of goals and resolutions, align with each other and your joint vision.

The Most Popular Blog Posts of 2021

Jennifer Scott

See the top articles from the blog this year

How to Create Shared Meaning as Newlyweds or Newly Engaged

Dana McNeil

Make the holidays brand new together.

Do You Have Time for a Date?

Jennifer Pesetsky

Whether you’ve got 10 minutes or all day, find the perfect date idea.

A Happier Relationship Starts Today

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