Love & Relationships

All successful relationships are built on the same premise: The Sound Relationship House theory by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

How Your Childhood Can Affect Your Marriage

Terry Gaspard

Your past has a bigger impact on your present than you think

Two Good Reasons to Save Your Marriage

The Gottman Institute

You'd be surprised what a good relationship can do for you

Do You People-Please in Your Relationship?

Hailey Magee

How to break the pattern

How to Know a Relationship is Too Much Work

Andrew G. Marshall

Can this relationship be saved?

Am I Too Traumatized to be in a Relationship?

Anna Aslanian

Dating when you have trauma can be challenging, but not impossible.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman on How Not to Ruin Your Relationship

The Gottman Institute

Listen to the Gottmans discuss the big and small things you can do to have a happy relationship

What Causes Contempt in Relationships

Jinashree Rajendrakumar

How to spot contempt and what to do when it shows up

The Right Way to Complain

The Gottman Institute

Learn how to express your feelings without hurting your partner

Types of Criticism: Expressing Concern or Complaint without Harm

Kimberly Panganiban

Learn how to identify the first of the four horsemen

Are You Losing You in the Relationship? Enmeshment, Detachment, and Differentiation

Jinashree Rajendrakumar

Though dysfunctional stability instills temporary peace, it limits living a whole relationship and life.

How to Build Love Maps

The Gottman Institute

What does it look like to stay curious about your partner?

This Valentine’s Day Burn Your Romance Novels

Cheryl Fraser

Don’t let a fictional soulmate make you miss the magic of your real-life relationship

A Happier Relationship Starts Today

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