The Archives

Research Reveals the Secret to “Happily Ever After”

April Eldemire

If you think the way to eternal love is through grand gestures of romance and passion, think again.

Carrie Cole Named Research Director of The Gottman Institute

Becca Sangwin

She will be directing and overseeing five new research studies.

What Do Women Really Want?

John Gottman

It is not as complicated as you think.

Turning Toward Our Children: Answering Bids for Connection

Rebecca Eanes

It’s about the quality of connection, not the presence of perfection.

Finding Julie Gottman

Shantel Patu

Our relationship was like an island and we were castaways.

New Research Study Confirms Bringing Baby Home Workshop Effectiveness

Carolyn Pirak

The greatest gift you can give your child is a strong relationship between you and your partner.

5 Ways to Bolster Your Child’s Emotional Intelligence

Rebecca Eanes

The ability to manage emotions helps kids navigate social relationships, maximize intellectual success, and develop confidence.

Manage Conflict

Karen Bridbord

The Four Horsemen are detrimental to an office environment and work culture.

Positive Parenting: Accept Feelings, Limit Actions

Rebecca Eanes

All feelings are acceptable. All behaviors are not.

Becoming an Emotion Coach

Rebecca Eanes

What determines how children turn out? This is the question on every parent's mind.

Psychology Finally Reveals the Answer to Finding Your Soulmate

L R Borbón

Psychology is finally shedding light on the mystery that encapsulates so many hearts and minds around the world in an effort to understand what truly makes two people compatible for a relationship.

Timing Is Everything When It Comes To Marriage Counseling

Terry Gaspard

According to relationship and marriage expert Dr. John Gottman, couples wait an average of six years of being unhappy before getting help.

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