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The Archives

Coming Out as Lesbian/Bi/Queer After 35

Dr. Ruth L. Schwartz

A brief orientation to your new life

One Great Reason To Celebrate Pride (and Why It’s So Great)

Salvatore Garanzini and Alapaki Yee

It's more than a parade. Certified Gottman Therapists explain the true meaning of Pride and what it means for the LGBTQ community.

How to Handle Unsupportive Family as an LGBTQ Couple

Kari Rusnak, LPC, CMHC, BC-TMH

While you can’t control N unsupportive family, you can make sure your relationship doesn’t break because of it.

When Food Hurts Relationships

Dr. Kim Lampson

Learn how eating disorders can disrupt and bring distance between partners

Tips from a Therapist and Mother on Parenting a Transgender Teen

Melissa Benaroya, MSW, LICSW

Read this first-person account from one parent to another on raising a transgender teen

Two Different Brains in Love: Conflict Resolution in Neurodiverse Relationships

Yolanda Renteria, LPC, NCC

Learn how to navigate conflict and other difficult conversations when neurodiversity affects your relationship.

Keeping Up Hope While Dating

Stacy Hubbard, LMFT

Does finding the one for you feel impossible?

Self-Soothing Tips for High Conflict Couples

Brittini Carter, LMHC

If your arguments feel out of control, you need to step away and bring yourself back to a calm state.

How to Deal With Passive-Aggressive Behavior in Your Relationship

Laura Silverstein, LCSW

Whether it's a backhanded compliment or a subtle eye-roll, learn how to identify passive aggression and what to do about it.

How Your Childhood Can Affect Your Marriage

Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW

Your past has a bigger impact on your present than you think

Permission to Come Home: Play as Medicine

Dr. Jenny Wang

Can you allow yourself to introduce play as a healing practice?

Brené Brown’s Atlas of the Heart: Defensiveness and Flooding

Brené Brown

From her latest book, Brené discusses these core Gottman Method concepts

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