The Archives

I’m Queer and Anxious. Luckily, So Is My Wife.

Real Relationships

Love softens anxiety’s hold on both of us.

How to Market Your Private Practice

The Gottman Institute

The three things you need to understand to be a Master of Marketing.

How Coming Out Saved Our Marriage

Real Relationships

When Matt and Isaac got married, they were both still in the closet.

ScreenTime: From Tuning In to Turning Towards

The Gottman Institute

We were asked by ABC News to consult for their two-hour special report with Diane Sawyer.

I Found the One, and We’re in an Open Marriage

Real Relationships

How one same-sex couple explores ethical non-monogamy together.

Gottman Love and Sexuality Glossary

The Gottman Institute

Our guide on combining forms used to express different types of love and relationships, and how you may see them used.

Can Words Really Hurt Me?

Shantel Patu

Sticks and stones may break my bones, but can words really hurt me?

The Science of Love

The Gottman Institute

In his TEDx Talk, John Gottman explains how his scientific research has created a new understanding of love relationships.

Relationship Growth Happens in Nature

Hannah Eaton

A therapist leads wilderness retreats for couples.

World Peace Starts at Home

The Gottman Institute

In her TEDx Talk, Julie Schwartz Gottman explores how to create peace in the world using findings from studies on love and diplomacy.

My Wife Wants to Open the Relationship. Is Our Marriage Over?

Cheryl Fraser

A sex therapist weighs in on open relationships and how to make monogamy hot again.

Here’s What Happened When I Went on Eight Therapist-Designed Dates

Logan Ury

We sent a dating coach and her boyfriend on eight dates designed by John and Julie Gottman.

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