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Gottman Relationship Coach: Feeling Seen and Heard

Do you feel seen, heard, and valued by your partnerOne of the many benefits of a happy and healthy relationship is the feeling that you have someone who really “gets” you. But everyone has areas they could improve on, or be more intentional in their relationship. That’s what Feeling Seen and Heard, from the Gottman Relationship Coach, is all about. Learn from Drs. John and Julie Gottman how to be seen and heard, how to become a better listener and how to Turn Towards your partner more often in this series of videos and exercises.

When you show up for your partner, and when you feel seen and heard, your connection will deepen and you can even reduce your stress! 

This new program will help you learn:

  • How to identify and share your truth
  • About what we call Bids for Connection, and the three ways you can respond to them
  • How to Turn Towards your partner to make your relationship successful.
  • A concept of an Emotional Bank Account and positive emotions, and how to
    increase the balance in your Emotional Bank Account
  • How to identify and express your needs in the relationship
  • How to be a great listener
  • How to have a stress-reducing conversation

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Feeling Seen and Heard

This program can help you communicate your needs and truths with more clarity and improve your listening skills. Rich with concepts that you can start applying today like Bids, Turning Towards, the Emotional Bank Account, and the Stress-Reducing Conversation, Feeling Seen and Heard is a relationship essential.

Showing Up

Are you connecting in your regular conversations or do you sometimes feel like two ships passing in the night? With the practical skills in this module, you can deepen your conversations and make the interactions in your relationship more intentional. Stop phoning it in and start showing up with these relationship habits.

Effective Listening

Some people are just naturally great listeners, but great listening is a skill anyone can learn and improve on with practice. Learn the difference between empathy, compassion, and pity, and how to tap into your own empathy as you listen. In this module, you will also learn how to ask questions that deepen the conversation, rather than interrupting or redirecting it. Effective listening is the gift that keeps on giving!

Buy Now

Feeling Seen and Heard includes:

  • Exclusive new video content
  • Entertaining role plays by Drs. John and Julie Gottman demonstrating destructive couples behaviors that undermine relationship well-being with suggestions on how to turn these interactions around, resulting in positive outcomes.
  • Six exercises
  • New audio content
  • NOTE: If you have an account here on you will still have to create a new account on GOTTMAN CONNECT in order to purchase and view this product. Once you’ve purchased it you will be able to view it by signing in to GOTTMAN CONNECT.

Related Content

Gottman Relationship Blog: Listen without Getting Defensive

Gottman Relationship Blog: Invest in Your Emotional Bank Account


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Drs. John and Julie Gottman



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