Love & Relationships

All successful relationships are built on the same premise: The Sound Relationship House theory by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

5 Simple Ways to Have More Romantic Sex

Kyle Benson

Couples who have a great sex life make sex a priority rather than the last item of a long to-do list.

4 Negative Behaviors That May Be Making You Sick

Jon Beaty

Research finds that being in an unhappy marriage can increase your chances of getting sick.

Hurt Feelings Do Not Mean You Did Something Wrong

LaVerna Wilk

When someone’s feelings get hurt, it doesn’t automatically mean someone did something wrong.

Look at Your Partner Through Rose-Colored Glasses (Seriously)

Sanaa Hyder

Successful couples purposefully strive to see each other through rose-colored glasses.

3 Guidelines for Spouses Affected by Their Partner’s Addiction

Candice Rasa

Focus on the problem, not the person.

3 Things That Will Help Your Sexual Chemistry Stand the Test of Time

Verily Magazine

Having a passion that never fades is not a fantasy.

10 Things to Try Before Giving Up On Your Marriage

Terry Gaspard

The recipe for failure in a marriage is waiting for the other person to change.

The Best Gottman Relationship Articles of 2016

Kyle Benson

Here are the 10 most read Gottman Relationship Blog articles from the past year.

One Ritual You and Your Partner Need to Feel More Connected

Aaron and April Jacob

Communication builds connection.

Ringing in the New Year with Relationship Resolutions

Sanaa Hyder

Sit down together and plan your resolutions for the new year.

Meta-Emotion: How You Feel About Feelings

Stacy Hubbard

Understanding how you feel about feelings can make a difference in your ability to form strong, healthy bonds with others.

How Forgiveness Can Transform Your Marriage

Terry Gaspard

Forgiveness is an essential component of successful romantic relationships.

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