Love & Relationships

All successful relationships are built on the same premise: The Sound Relationship House theory by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

The Eight Conversations That Matter Most in Relationships

The Gottman Institute

From the country’s leading relationship experts, comes 'Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love.'

How I Almost Quit Couples Therapy—and Love—Until Mindfulness Saved Me

Cheryl Fraser

Our ability to observe the workings of our mind, challenge our stories, and see what is really happening is a major predictor of happiness.

Stop Creating Gratitude Lists and Do This Instead

Kristen Manieri

It’s time to have a thank you note revival.

Pay Attention, for Passion’s Sake

Cheryl Fraser

Paying attention predicts relationship success.

Public Figures Go to Couples Therapy, Too

Michael Fulwiler

As John and Julie Gottman like to say, we’re all in the same soup.

Tikkun Olam and the Mission of The Gottman Institute

John Gottman

Healing the world is more than our mission. It's our responsibility.

Insights on Same-Sex Marriage from Julie Gottman

David and Constantino Khalaf

Dr. Julie Gottman performed the world’s first controlled study on children being raised in the homes of lesbian moms.

Creating Your Own Holiday Rituals

The Gottman Institute

Rituals give relationships meaning, especially during the holiday season.

How to Stay Connected as a Couple Through the Holidays

Kristen Manieri

Having a joyful, connected holiday season is absolutely possible.

A Vacation Survival Guide for Couples

David and Constantino Khalaf

If you haven't travelled together as a couple, do it as soon as possible.

Intimate Partner Violence and the #MeToo Movement

Mary Beth George

Let’s not forget the brave survivors of intimate partner violence. Their #MeToo stories matter, too.

We’ve Started Renewing Our Wedding Vows Every Year. Here’s Why

Kristen Manieri

This powerful ritual of connection will improve your relationship.

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