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How We Used the Aftermath of a Fight to Repair Our Relationship

Kyle Benson

Every conflict offers an opportunity for a deeper understanding.

Pay Attention, for Passion’s Sake

Cheryl Fraser

Paying attention predicts relationship success.

Public Figures Go to Couples Therapy, Too

Michael Fulwiler

As John and Julie Gottman like to say, we’re all in the same soup.

How to Stop Detached Dating and Create Real Connection

Anna Aslanian

Tips for dating in a more meaningful way.

Tikkun Olam and the Mission of The Gottman Institute

John Gottman

Healing the world is more than our mission. It's our responsibility.

Insights on Same-Sex Marriage from Julie Gottman

David and Constantino Khalaf

Dr. Julie Gottman performed the world’s first controlled study on children being raised in the homes of lesbian moms.

Creating Your Own Holiday Rituals

The Gottman Institute

Rituals give relationships meaning, especially during the holiday season.

How to Stay Connected as a Couple Through the Holidays

Kristen Manieri

Having a joyful, connected holiday season is absolutely possible.

A Vacation Survival Guide for Couples

David and Constantino Khalaf

If you haven't travelled together as a couple, do it as soon as possible.

Intimate Partner Violence and the #MeToo Movement

Mary Beth George

Let’s not forget the brave survivors of intimate partner violence. Their #MeToo stories matter, too.

Beyond the Talk: Teaching Your Kids About Consent

Katelyn Ewen

Rather than having “the talk” with your kids, think of teaching consent as an ongoing dialogue.

The Joys (and Tears) of Parenting My Adult Children

Shantel Patu

I’m enjoying watching my children grow into adults that I can be proud of.

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