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Gottman Relationship Coach

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Don’t settle for one-size-fits-all solutions. Create a Gottman Relationship Coach experience that’s as unique as your love story.

Choose 3 Coach programs for only $159*

How Does It Work?

Browse Programs: Explore a diverse range of coaching programs covering a range of topics like conflict management, friendship, trust, and sex and intimacy.

Select Your Favorites: Choose three Coach programs that resonate most with you and your partner (current Bundles not included). No matter what you’d like to focus on, there's a Coach program tailored to your needs.

Build Your Bundle: Mix and match your selected Coach programs to create a personalized bundle that aligns with your goals and preferences. Add each program to the cart and check out! It's that simple!

*The price will automatically default to $159 for 3 of the below Coach programs in your cart! That means you could theoretically get three $99 Coach programs for only $159!

Gottman Relationship Coach Programs

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

You’re deciding to spend forever together.  Making a commitment to one another is a time to celebrate and prepare for the new adventure ahead of you. Your journey is one of trust and commitment as you forge a path towards lasting love. You’ll want to have shared goals and new dreams to hope for, and plenty of fun and play. Don’t forget to soak in all the intimacy and romance along the way! So, take each other’s hands and get ready. Whether you’re committing to each other after a long time of casual dating or you’ve just swept each other off your feet, committing to each other is a big step, but don’t worry. With more than 50 years of research into how relationships work, the Gottmans are here to give you the tools you need for happily ever after. This new program will help you learn:
  • The difference between dreams and goals
  • How to have conversations around your hopes for your lives, both individually and together
  • The meaning of trust and commitment, and how to increase both in your relationship
  • How to go “all in” on your relationship, and the fruits that it can bear
  • How to introduce more fun, play, and adventure in your lives
  • How to create your own Rituals of Connection
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Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

Do you feel seen, heard, and valued by your partnerOne of the many benefits of a happy and healthy relationship is the feeling that you have someone who really “gets” you. But everyone has areas they could improve on, or be more intentional in their relationship. That’s what Feeling Seen and Heard, from the Gottman Relationship Coach, is all about. Learn from Drs. John and Julie Gottman how to be seen and heard, how to become a better listener and how to Turn Towards your partner more often in this series of videos and exercises.
When you show up for your partner, and when you feel seen and heard, your connection will deepen and you can even reduce your stress!  This new program will help you learn:
  • How to identify and share your truth
  • About what we call Bids for Connection, and the three ways you can respond to them
  • How to Turn Towards your partner to make your relationship successful.
  • A concept of an Emotional Bank Account and positive emotions, and how to increase the balance in your Emotional Bank Account
  • How to identify and express your needs in the relationship
  • How to be a great listener
  • How to have a stress-reducing conversation
“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Original price was: $119.00.Current price is: $79.00.

Research-based Foundations for a Lifetime of Love.  The Gottman Relationship Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience designed to enhance the well-being of relationships. Participants will be guided through research-based tools and communication skills that can transform relationships—all based on the popular Gottman Method. The first program, “How to Make Your Relationship Work”, is now available and includes:
  • The Gottman Method and How to Make Your Relationship Work
  • How do we predict the future of a relationship?
  • How to build a Sound Relationship House
  • What to do when the destructive Four Horsemen enter your relationship
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Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

In “Dealing with Conflict” Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional. In this program you will learn:
  • Why you keep fighting about the same things, and how to get “unstuck.”
  • How to address recurring issues within your relationship.
  • How to approach conflict conversations gently, in a way that addresses specific issues.
  • How to identify what your feelings and experiences are around issues that are causing conflict, and how to gently bring them up with your partner.
  • How to understand your partner’s side of an issue, and how to get your partner to understand where you’re coming from.
  • How to examine the individual values, ideas, and beliefs that influence how you and your partner engage with the world around you.
  • More about your own emotions.
“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

So you just had an argument. Now what?  The latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, “Making Up After an Argument” includes a step-by-step exercise to help you and your partner process an argument and discover what you were really fighting about. In addition to our powerful “Aftermath of a Fight” exercise, “Making Up After an Argument” includes sections and exercises on feeling overloaded, taking effective breaks from conflict, and how to rebuild the lines of communication—even mid-argument.  Solve the mystery of what you and your partner really argue about to restore, repair, and revitalize the communication in your relationship. This new program will help you learn:
  • How to process even the most difficult arguments and heal from them together.
  • What to do when you are feeling overwhelmed and overloaded, what we call “Flooding”.
  • What happens in your body when you are in conflict.
  • How to calm yourself down, in or out of conflict.
  • The importance of “repair attempts,” or ways to get the conversation back on track, plus how to notice and make them
Limited Time Offer! “Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Original price was: $79.00.Current price is: $49.00.

Learn how to foster intimacy and safety in your relationship and how doing so can lead to amazing sex in the new Gottman Relationship Coach, “Enriching Your Sex Life”. In this never-before-seen series of videos and conversation-starting exercises, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you and your partner through opening up communication around sex, learning your partner’s preferences, exploring sensuality, and building sexual safety in your relationship.

Original price was: $69.00.Current price is: $39.00.

Loving Out Loud!  Find the Passion Again. You and your partner must nurture a culture of fondness and admiration to find that spark. In this all-new series of exercises, activities, and videos, Drs. John and Julie Gottman can show you how to love your partner even better. Upgrade your love life with this research-based series of conversations, skills, and practices designed to enhance the fondness and admiration in your relationship. In this program you will learn:
  • All about the Sound Relationship House and how to build your own.
  • How to ask better questions that lead to richer conversations.
  • Better and more effective ways to express your love.
  • How to get specific about the things you appreciate, and communicate them in ways your partner will really hear.
  • What skills the “Masters of Relationships” practice regularly and how to implement them in your own relationship.

Limited Time Offer!

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Thank you to the Gottman Institute for providing the tools my partner and I need to create a healthy relationship

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?

The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. the Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.

There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.

Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship you select, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program. The Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place. Start with a checkup to find out what you can improve, then follow a personalized, step-by-step plan for your relationship.

Yes, customers can benefit from the Gottman Relationship Coaches.  The Gottman Assessment will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment, then provides recommendations for improvement.

You can find a Gottman-trained therapist on The Gottman Referral Network. This Network of experienced clinicians are certified the Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your assessments and work with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.

Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program you would like to gift to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!

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