trust

Betrayal Trauma in Addiction

Anna Aslanian

Betrayal trauma hits the foundation of the person and the relationship—trust.

Dating a Man 16 Years Younger Forced Me to Grow Up

Real Relationships

The deeper I fell, the more fearful I became, and the more I looked for imperfections.

John Gottman and Brené Brown on Running Headlong Into Heartbreak

Kerry Lusignan

The Gottmans and Brené Brown give us a map—a macro perspective of the wilderness of our hearts, and the wildness of love.

A Letter to My Younger Self on My Wedding Day

Shantel Patu

Here are a few things I’ve learned about love and life over the last 23 years of marriage.

Here’s What Happened When I Went on Eight Therapist-Designed Dates

Logan Ury

We sent a dating coach and her boyfriend on eight dates designed by John and Julie Gottman.

What to Do if You Don’t Trust Each Other

Terry Gaspard

A therapist shares seven ways to build trust in your relationship.

Before You Get Married, Watch This

Michael Fulwiler

Prince EA, a filmmaker, activist, and public speaker, created a beautiful video based on some of our core principles.

Turn Toward Your Child to Nurture Intimacy

The Gottman Institute

Intimacy is the glue that holds families together. It's what connects us over the years and across the miles.

Emotional Intelligence Is Key to Successful Leadership

Chris Dollard

If leaders fail in driving emotions in the right direction, nothing they do will work as well as it could or should.

What Pride Means to the Gay Couples Institute

Chris Dollard

The Gay Couples Institute saw the need for specialized care for LGBTQ couples, and we provide support to their tribe members.

Relationships 101: What They Don’t Teach You in School

Chris Dollard

Knowing the scientific facts of how relationships work is a vital life skill to have that will serve you well.

4 Key Issues for New Parents and How to Solve Them

April Eldemire

The two of you are a team, and while raising a child is a big challenge, you have each other’s backs.

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