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How Your Childhood Can Affect Your Marriage

Terry Gaspard

Your past has a bigger impact on your present than you think

Permission to Come Home: Play as Medicine

Jenny Wang

Can you allow yourself to introduce play as a healing practice?

Brené Brown’s Atlas of the Heart: Defensiveness and Flooding

The Gottman Institute

From her latest book, Brené discusses these core Gottman Method concepts

The Mutual Benefits of Accepting Influence in Relationships

Nicole Schiener

From power struggles to shared power and values

What to Expect from Family Therapy

Michael Brown

Read this before you consider going to therapy as a family

Two Good Reasons to Save Your Marriage

The Gottman Institute

You'd be surprised what a good relationship can do for you

Mindful Parenting

Child Mind Institute

Use mindfulness techniques to take the stress and anxiety out of raising kids

Do You People-Please in Your Relationship?

Hailey Magee

How to break the pattern

How to Know a Relationship is Too Much Work

Andrew G. Marshall

Can this relationship be saved?

Am I Too Traumatized to be in a Relationship?

Anna Aslanian

Dating when you have trauma can be challenging, but not impossible.

‘It’s Not My Fault!’: Why Defensiveness is Damaging

Cheryl Fraser

Don’t get defensive. Do this instead.

Does Your Stepchild Trust You?

Terry Gaspard

When it comes to blending families, take your time.

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