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Drs. John and Julie Gottman on How Not to Ruin Your Relationship

Listen to the Gottmans discuss the big and small things you can do to have a happy relationship

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Here at the Gottman Institute, we know that our founders Drs. John and Julie Gottman are sought-after speakers and podcast guests around the world. Recently, they had the opportunity to speak to Dan Harris at the Ten Percent Happier podcast about the big and small things that couples do that impact their relationship.

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  • Publish Date: March 21, 2022
  • Last Updated: May 11, 2026

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