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The Gottman Institute

Mental health experts explore the Gottman Method basics

3 Ways to Make a Better Bid for Connection

The Gottman Institute

Take the guesswork out of connecting with your partner.

Taking Care of the Caretaker in Your Life

The Gottman Institute

Show your love and support for the one who helps everyone else

The Art of the Mindful Apology: Why ‘Sorry’ is Not Enough

Cheryl Fraser

Three key steps to apologizing with meaning.

The Code: A Business Plan to Healthier Relationships

Lawrence Jackson

A plan for success creates a firm foundation.

Do Opposites Attract or Similarities?

The Gottman Institute

Your partner doesn't always have to think like you... and that's a good thing.

Repeating Cycles and How to Break Them

Ann-Louise Lockhart

If you can learn unhealthy patterns, then you can unlearn them too.

Passion and Romance in Marriage: How It Goes Sour

Susan O'Grady

Has your relationship lost its spark?

Communication Tips for Interfaith Couples

Genesis Games

Are religious differences causing strife in your relationship?

Compromise: It’s Not What You Think!

Ken Fremont-Smith

When your desires are in conflict, reconsider what you both really need.

Four Signs That You May Be in a Codependent Relationship

Brittini Carter

Are you losing yourself in your relationship?

Confronting Kid Conflict with Emotion Coaching

Melissa Benaroya

Help your kids resolve their conflict and handle big emotions.

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