Dealing with
Conflict
Turn Conflict into Connection
Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Dealing with Conflict
Turn Conflict into Connection
Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Frustrated by Conflict in Your Relationship?
Frustrated by Conflict in Your Relationship?
Arguments don’t mean your relationship is broken; they mean you care enough to fight. But without the right tools, conflict can erode trust and intimacy and hurt your relationship.
Dealing with Conflict is a self-paced online program that helps couples transform arguments into meaningful opportunities for deeper connection.Â
As one of the powerful programs offered in the larger Gottman Relationship Coach series, Dealing with Conflict was created using over 50 years of research to offer a practical, proven method that helps you move beyond conflict and build real understanding.
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$89.00
$149.00
Turn Conflict into Connection
Every couple argues. But when fights feel repetitive, hurtful, or unresolved, it’s time to learn a better way.
Whether you’re dealing with recurring disagreements as a couple or just want to improve communication in your relationship, this program gives you the tools to fight smarter not harder.
Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 15 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to help you apply what you learn
- Role plays based on real-life situations that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships thrive. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Turn Conflict into Connection
Product description
Every couple argues. But when fights feel repetitive, hurtful, or unresolved, it’s time to learn a better way.
Whether you’re dealing with recurring disagreements as a couple or just want to improve communication in your relationship, this program gives you the tools to fight smarter not harder.
What’s Inside 
this Coach Program?
- 15 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to help you apply what you learn
- Role plays based on real-life situations that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships thrive. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (15 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Contact Gottman Support Center
From Tension to Understanding,
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Approaching conflict in a healthier, more productive way!
The All About Conflict Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Why you keep fighting about the same things
- How to gently start tough conversations
- How to express feelings without triggering defensiveness
- And much more..
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