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Criticism. Contempt. Defensiveness. Stonewalling. Meet the Four Horsemen – and discover the research-based antidotes that can help keep them from haunting your relationship.

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WHAT’S LURKING IN YOUR CONFLICT?

The Four Horsemen are four communication patterns that can turn everyday disagreements into something much scarier. The good news? Each one has an antidote.

Casting the blame.

Draining Affection.

Claws Out.

Communication Graveyard.

Casting the blame.

Draining affection.

Claws out.

Communication Graveyard.

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Gottman Relationship Coach: All About Intimacy Bundle

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $149.00.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s Gottman Relationship Coach Love & Intimacy collection. With more than 50 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new All About Intimacy Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, which combines three of our most popular products: Loving Out Loud, Feeling Seen and Heard, Enriching Your Sex Life

Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: All About Love

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $149.00.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s Gottman Relationship Coach Love & Intimacy collection. With more than 50 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, All About Love, which combines three of our most popular products: “How to Make Your Relationship Work,” “Loving Out Loud,” and “Building a Life Together.”

Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: All About Conflict

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $139.00.

Drs John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce this Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Conflict. The first program, “Dealing with Conflict” teaches the basics of communication in conflict. You will learn which of the problems your relationship faces are solvable, and which you may continue to encounter. If any of these perpetual problems have you stuck, the Gottmans can help you get “unstuck” and understand each other’s perspectives. “Dealing with Conflict” helps prepare you for the regular, inevitable moments of friction that are bound to arise in any relationship. The second program, “What to Do After a Fight” teaches how to navigate more difficult arguments and the feelings that come along with them. If “Dealing with Conflict” makes regular communication “smooth sailing,” “What to Do After a Fight” helps you address rough waters to keep your relationship from capsizing. Often, more serious arguments arise because they touch on values and beliefs one or both of you hold dear. Explore what’s underneath the storm with the game-changing exercises contained in this program. NOTE: If you already purchased “Dealing with Conflict” or “Making Up After an Argument” individually and want to take advantage of this special offer, make sure you are logged in to your Gottman Connect account and the price difference will automatically be deducted from your purchase of the second program.

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Gottman Relationship Adviser

$189.00

Originally $250,00

The Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship…

BANISH BAD COMMUNICATION

The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.

The Four Horsemen: The Antidotes

The Gottman Institute

Luckily, for every Horseman of the Apocalypse, there is an antidote.

BANISH BAD COMMUNICATION

The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.

The Four Horsemen: The Antidotes

The Gottman Institute

Learn how to recognize the Four Horsemen and replace them with their antidotes. These practical tools can help you manage conflict more constructively, communicate with greater respect, and build healthier patterns in your relationship.

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Shop October Deals

Meet the Monsters of

WHAT’S LURKING IN YOUR CONFLICT?

NO TRICKS, JUST TREATS

Relationship Coach bundles

Gottman Relationship Coach: All About Intimacy Bundle

Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: All About Love

Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: All About Conflict

Gottman Relationship Adviser

$189.00

Originally $250,00

BANISH BAD COMMUNICATION

The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.

Read more →

The Four Horsemen: The Antidotes

The Gottman Institute

Luckily, for every Horseman of the Apocalypse, there is an antidote.

Read more →

BANISH BAD COMMUNICATION

The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.

Read more →

The Four Horsemen: The Antidotes

The Gottman Institute

Learn how to recognize the Four Horsemen and replace them with their antidotes. These practical tools can help you manage conflict more constructively, communicate with greater respect, and build healthier patterns in your relationship.

Read more →

FRIGHTFULLY

Meet the Monsters of

WHAT’S LURKING IN YOUR CONFLICT?

NO TRICKS, JUST TREATS

Relationship Coach bundles

Gottman Relationship Coach: All About Intimacy Bundle

Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: All About Love

Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: All About Conflict

Gottman Relationship Adviser

$189.00

Originally $250,00

BANISH BAD COMMUNICATION

The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.

Read more →

The Four Horsemen: The Antidotes

The Gottman Institute

Luckily, for every Horseman of the Apocalypse, there is an antidote.

Read more →

BANISH BAD COMMUNICATION

The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

Dr. Ellie Wilde

Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.

Read more →

The Four Horsemen: The Antidotes

The Gottman Institute

Learn how to recognize the Four Horsemen and replace them with their antidotes. These practical tools can help you manage conflict more constructively, communicate with greater respect, and build healthier patterns in your relationship.

Read more →

DON’T GHOST US!

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