Loving Out Loud
Fade: Show Up, Speak Up, and Love Fearlessly!
$69.00 Original price was: $69.00.$39.00Current price is: $39.00.
Loving Out Loud
Fade: Show Up, Speak Up, and Love Fearlessly!
$69.00 Original price was: $69.00.$39.00Current price is: $39.00.
Don’t Let the Love Fade:
Speak Up, and Love Fearlessly!
Don’t Let the Love Fade:
Speak Up, and Love Fearlessly!
Building and keeping your love alive needs work, because love isn’t just a feeling; it’s something we have to do out loud, every day!
Whether you’re feeling taken for granted or that you need to reignite the spark and strengthen your bond, the self-paced digital program, Loving Out Loud, will help you make your love flourish and your relationship thrive.
Through expert guidance from Drs. John and Julie Gottman, you’ll learn how to turn appreciation, affection, and emotional support into daily habits that deepen your connection and make your love stronger.
$39.00
$69.00
Small Moments, Big Love
Even the happiest couples can fall into autopilot where “I love you” isn’t said as often. You take each other for granted and don’t express appreciation enough. You still love each other, but some of the ‘spark’ has faded and you’re not quite sure where the magic went.
Developed by the world’s leading experts on love, Loving Out Loud helps you make the practice and expression of love intentional. With simple yet powerful practices, you’ll learn how to make love a daily habit, rekindling the spark, rediscovering the magic, and deepening the intimacy you both deserve.
$69.00 Original price was: $69.00.$39.00Current price is: $39.00.
Turn everyday moments into meaningful expressions of love
Build habits of appreciation, affection, and emotional support
Discover what makes your partner feel truly valued
Strengthen trust, commitment, and emotional connection
Embrace fun, playfulness, and shared joy
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 7 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive and research-based exercises and conversation starters
- Tools to build your own Sound Relationship House
- Techniques for asking better questions and expressing appreciation
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build deeply loving relationships. Loving Out Loud distills that wisdom into lots of bite-sized lessons you can use everyday.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
$69.00 Original price was: $69.00.$39.00Current price is: $39.00.
Small Moments, Big Love
Product description
Even the happiest couples can fall into autopilot where “I love you” isn’t said as often. You take each other for granted and don’t express appreciation enough. You still love each other, but some of the ‘spark’ has faded and you’re not quite sure where the magic went.
Developed by the world’s leading experts on love, Loving Out Loud helps you make the practice and expression of love intentional. With simple yet powerful practices, you’ll learn how to make love a daily habit, rekindling the spark, rediscovering the magic, and deepening the intimacy you both deserve.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 7 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive and research-based exercises and conversation starters
- Tools to build your own Sound Relationship House
- Techniques for asking better questions and expressing appreciation
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build deeply loving relationships. Loving Out Loud distills that wisdom into lots of bite-sized lessons you can use everyday.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Thank you!
Thank you to the Gottman Institute for providing the tools my partner and I need to create a healthy relationship
Sanchia R.
Gottman Member
Entertaining while being wise
I really like what you have done right here, especially the way in which you make it entertaining while being wise.
K.L.
Gottman Member
Love the role play videos!
We love the Gottman role playing videos that are so relatable and help guide our communication about sensitive subjects. Thank you Gottmans!
Anonymous
Fantastic
I love the Gottman approach to intimacy based on years of studies of relationship successes and failures.
Jeremy H.
It taught me a lot
It has been very helpful for me to see where I have been going wrong and only further exasperating situations and taught me better ways in which I can be more loving and patient. This has helped me to become a better listener.
Anonymous
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (7 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Rediscover Intimacy. Rekindle Connection
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