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Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, Affective Software, Inc., and The Gottman Institute, Gottman Connect is where professionals, their clients, other couples, and individuals are able to enjoy our latest, research-based assessment and well-being tools. The new Gottman Connect platform brings the assessment process online and provides resources to use through the therapeutic process.

GOTTMAN CONNECT was developed by Affective Software, Inc., a sister company of The Gottman Institute. Affective Software combines the Gottmans’ science with cutting edge expertise in software, AI and Machine Learning to deliver proven relationship assessment methods and intervention exercises on smartphones, tablets, and computers.


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Based on the popular Gottman Method, the Gottman Relationship Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience designed to enhance the wellbeing of relationships. Let Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through science-based, relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection. With proven strategies and informational content that you and your partner can work through at your own pace, the Gottman Relationship Coach can transform your relationship.

Gottman Relationship Coach programs

NEW! ~ Commitment is a big step, but don’t worry! With more than 40 years of research into how relationships work, the Gottmans are here to give you the tools you need for happily ever after. When you’re ready to say “yes” to a lifetime of love together, it’s important to have conversations around trust, dreams, and shared meaning intentionally and productively. That’s what the newest Gottman Relationship Coach, Building a Life Together, is all about!

The first in the series, How to Make Your Relationship Work, includes foundational elements of the Gottmans’ research and some of the most important components of exactly how to create relationship well-being and happiness, including: The Gottman Method, how to make your relationship work, how to build a Sound Relationship House, how do we predict the future of a relationship? What to do when the destructive Four Horsemen enter your relationship.

Do you feel like your partner “gets” you? This is one of the many benefits of a happy and healthy relationship, but everyone has areas they could improve on to make their partner feel more understood and appreciated. That’s what Feeling Seen and Heard, from the Gottman Relationship Coach, is all about.

In Dealing with Conflict Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional. 

The key to lasting love is how you manage conflict when it occurs. In the latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, What to Do After a Fight, Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through the science behind conflict and what you can do to course-correct.

Special Price! All About Conflict bundle includes both of these above programs.

EXCLUSIVE BONUS WEBINAR: Hear from Drs. John and Julie Gottman live! Purchase this program before September 30, 2021, and receive access to an additional free webinar. Details will be provided post-purchase via email. 

If you’ve already purchased any products on GOTTMAN CONNECT you can sign in and view them here.


Announcing - the Enhanced Gottman Relationship Checkup

First Checkup Free! The Enhanced Gottman Relationship Checkup is a key assessment tools for clinical professionals used by the Gottmans and 10,000 other clinical professionals. Using research-based algorithms, the Enhanced Relationship Checkup generates unique summary reports for both the clinician and the couple.

If you were familiar with the previous version of the Gottman Relationship Checkup you know about the benefits of an accurate assessment.  The enhanced version further simplifies and improves the Gottman Method assessment process that provides you and your couples with personalized results and specific treatment recommendations. 

We’ve added some of the most requested features, such as:

  • Streamlined, precision questionnaire with 30% fewer questions
  • All new Couples report, in addition to an improved Clinician report
  • All new Reassessment functionality allows you to check progress over time

The Enhanced Gottman Relationship Checkup is HIPAA compliant and there’s no charge to professionals to apply for an account and begin inviting couples. We think you’ll find the intuitive features easy to navigate. 

Here’s how to get started:

  • Create your account using the Get Started form
  • Invite your first couple for free to check out the improved analysis and reports. Once you’ve used the free credit, future couples are $39 each. Each completed assessment includes a followup assessment without charge

The Enhanced Gottman Relationship Checkup has replaced the previous version of the Gottman Relationship Checkup. If you are looking for information from the previous version here’s what you need to know:

  • You will still be able to access your account and all the data at www.checkup.gottman.com.
  • The two systems are not connected and you will need to log into them separately. 
  • No new clinician accounts and new Couple invites are available in the previous version.
  • You will continue to have access to your historical data.

The New Gottman Love Lab is coming Soon!


Coming soon! The famous Gottman Love Lab is coming to the Gottman telehealth portal, Gottman Connect. In the all-new Gottman Love Lab experience, couples complete a questionnaire, then a video evaluation process provides an inside look into their relationship. This level of assessment is not available by other means.


If you are a clinical professional looking for more information on this exciting new product coming in 2021, please fill out the form below and we will keep you updated.