Emotionally Intelligent Couples

Emotional intelligence may be one of the most important building blocks to success in a committed relationship.

Head vs. Heart: Solving Meta-Emotion Mismatches for a Stronger Bond

Kyle Benson

What Is the Difference Between Stonewalling and Gaslighting?

Laura Silverstein

Touch More, Touch Often

Cheryl Fraser

How to strengthen fondness and admiration - without saying a thing

Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy

Vagdevi Meunier

Who doesn’t want a relationship that has a wonderful friendship base, tackles gridlocked and perpetual conflict with ease and humor, and a shared meaning system that inspires the best in oneself?

Date Your Mate!

Cheryl Fraser

Why date night rejuvenates long term relationships - if you do it right.

The Secret Ingredient to a Thriving Relationship: Turning Towards Each Other

Kyle Benson

8 Ways to Have Lower Conflict Conversations about Money

Terry Gaspard

How Emotion Regulation Can Transform Your Conflict Cycle

Rachel Burgreen

What Are We Fighting For?

Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman

Excerpted from FIGHT RIGHT copyright © 2024 by Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD and John Gottman, PhD. Used with permission from Harmony Books, an imprint of Random House, a division of Penguin Random House LLC, New York. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

Vagdevi Meunier

How Overcontrolling Behaviors Impact Relationships

Rachel Burgreen

Overcontrolled traits will lead to problems in your relationships.

New Year’s Relationship Resolutions

The Gottman Institute

The New Year can be your opportunity to make resolutions for better communication and a healthier relationship.

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