Emotionally Intelligent Couples

Emotional intelligence may be one of the most important building blocks to success in a committed relationship.

Date Your Mate!

Cheryl Fraser

Why date night rejuvenates long term relationships - if you do it right.

The Secret Ingredient to a Thriving Relationship: Turning Towards Each Other

Kyle Benson

8 Ways to Have Lower Conflict Conversations about Money

Terry Gaspard

How Emotion Regulation Can Transform Your Conflict Cycle

Rachel Burgreen

What Are We Fighting For?

Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman

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Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

Vagdevi Meunier

How Overcontrolling Behaviors Impact Relationships

Rachel Burgreen

Overcontrolled traits will lead to problems in your relationships.

New Year’s Relationship Resolutions

The Gottman Institute

The New Year can be your opportunity to make resolutions for better communication and a healthier relationship.

Hitting the Big Reset Button

John Gottman

We can have hope and we can believe, and most importantly, we can start over this holiday season.

Make This Holiday Season Sexy

Cheryl Fraser

Turn holiday stressors into opportunities to create new romantic rituals to make this holiday season sexy.

Do You Know the Story Beneath Your Relationship to Emotions?

Sabrina Walters

There’s an untapped power to understanding why you manage your emotions the way you do — and how that might differ greatly from your partner.

Small Actions Make Big Impacts

Kendra Han

Learn about bids for connection and how small daily acts of love can improve your relationship.

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