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Celebrate 30 Years
of relationship science

Founded in 1996 by Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman, The Gottman Institute turns 50+ years of research into practical tools for real people – whether you’re dating, married, raising kids, or supporting others as a clinician. Thirty years later, this work has reached millions of people around the world.

The Gottman timeline

1970s

It all started with a question.
Could the difference between happy and unhappy couples actually be observed?
Dr. John Gottman and his colleagues began studying real couples to find out.

1986-Early 1990s

The Love Lab opens.
Not a laboratory. Just an apartment.
Couples cooked dinner, watched TV, read magazines, and had everyday conversations while researchers observed the small interactions that shape relationships.

1994-1999

The research becomes something people can use.
Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman joins John to turn decades of findings into practical tools for couples and therapists. Together, they develop the Sound Relationship House.

1996

The Gottman Institute is founded!
(This is where our 30 years officially begin.)

2000s-2008

Relationship science becomes something everyone can experience.

  • Couples begin attending The Art and Science of Love.
  • Therapists begin training in the Gottman Method.
  • New parents gain support through Bringing Baby Home.

2014-Today

The Love Lab gets a new home.

  • Relationship tools go digital.
  • New resources reach couples, singles, parents, and professionals.

Into the future

The next chapter of relationship science is closer than you think…
Our timeline will continue with a brand new announcement very soon! Stay tuned.

The Gottman timeline

1970s

Could the difference between happy and unhappy couples actually be observed?
Dr. John Gottman and his colleagues began studying real couples to find out.

1986-Early 1990s

Not a laboratory. Just an apartment.
Couples cooked dinner, watched TV, read magazines, and had everyday conversations while researchers observed the small interactions that shape relationships.

1994-1999

The research becomes something people can use.
Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman joins John to turn decades of findings into practical tools for couples and therapists. Together, they develop the Sound Relationship House.

1996

The Gottman Institute is founded!
(This is where our 30 years officially begin.)

2000s - 2008

  • Couples begin attending The Art and Science of Love.
  • Therapists begin training in the Gottman Method.
  • New parents gain support through Bringing Baby Home.

2014 - Today

  • Relationship tools go digital.
  • New resources reach couples, singles, parents, and professionals.

Into the future

The Love Lab gets a new home.
  • Relationship tools go digital.
  • New resources reach couples, singles, parents, and professionals.

Anniversary sale

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Gottman Relationship Adviser

$139.00

Originally $250,00

The Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship…

The Gottman relationship coach bundles

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $119.00.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s Gottman Relationship Coach Love & Intimacy collection. With more than 50 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new All About Intimacy Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, which combines three of our most popular products: Loving Out LoudFeeling Seen and Heard, Enriching Your Sex Life

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $119.00.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s Gottman Relationship Coach Love & Intimacy collection. With more than 50 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, All About Love, which combines three of our most popular products: “How to Make Your Relationship Work,” “Loving Out Loud,” and “Building a Life Together.”

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $119.00.

Drs John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce this  Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Conflict. The first program, “Dealing with Conflict”  teaches the basics of communication in conflict. You will learn which of the problems your relationship faces are solvable, and which you may continue to encounter. If any of these perpetual problems have you stuck, the Gottmans can help you get “unstuck” and understand each other’s perspectives. “Dealing with Conflict” helps prepare you for the regular, inevitable moments of friction that are bound to arise in any relationship. The second program, “What to Do After a Fight” teaches how to navigate more difficult arguments and the feelings that come along with them. If “Dealing with Conflict” makes regular communication “smooth sailing,” “What to Do After a Fight” helps you address rough waters to keep your relationship from capsizing. Often, more serious arguments arise because they touch on values and beliefs one or both of you hold dear. Explore what’s underneath the storm with the game-changing exercises contained in this program.  NOTE: If you already purchased “Dealing with Conflict” or “Making Up After an Argument” individually and want to take advantage of this special offer, make sure you are logged in to your Gottman Connect account and the price difference will automatically be deducted from your purchase of the second program.

Original price was: $45.00.Current price is: $30.00.

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