Are you currently looking for a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist to use research-based approaches to help your relationship? 

The Gottman Institute is seeking couples to participate in an international outcome study on Gottman Method Couples Therapy. 

You will be able to work with a skilled, compassionate Certified Gottman Therapist either online via HIPAA compliant telehealth or in-person. Your participation in this study will not only help your relationship, it will also help us understand what couples are experiencing today in our post-COVID-19 world and what helps couples cultivate a healthier relationship in couples therapy. 

Costs and Compensation for Your Participation:

Session Costs: While all of the studies Dr. Gottman did during his tenure as a professor were funded with federal grants, funding for research on couple relationships is not currently available. Despite this, we still believe work needs to be done. As part of your participation in this study, we are asking you to pay the Certified Gottman Therapist session fee. We wish we could provide treatment to couples in our studies at no cost and pay the therapists providing these services. We simply don’t have the funds to do so.

Free Assessment: We do provide some financial help to couples and therapists by providing all assessment questionnaires at no charge. Couples will meet with a Certified Gottman Therapist and receive access to the new Gottman Connect assessment and an interpretation of the results that your therapist will go over with you. This is an average savings of $450.

Compensation for your time: Additionally, we are fortunately able to provide compensation for the time it takes to fill out the questionnaires for our study. You will be required to fill out three or four lengthy questionnaires, at the beginning of treatment, at the end of treatment, and six months later. After the final questionnaire is filled out 6 months post-treatment, as a thank you for your time, we are happy to be able to provide one of the following (whichever you prefer and choose after completing the final questionnaire):

  • a $300 Visa gift card ($150 per partner)
  • A Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle of your choice
  • Free registration to a live Art and Science of Love couples workshop

Do you qualify for the study?

  • Couples must be presenting for couples therapy
  • Couples must be married or in a committed relationship
  • Couples have not worked with a Certified Gottman Therapist before (Gottman training is okay; please reach out to [email protected] if you’re not sure about their level of training, I’d be happy to verify)
  • Couples must not be actively participating in couples therapy with another therapist at the time of applying, or for the duration of the study (during active treatment and for 6 months following)
  • Each individual must not be attending their own individual therapy or counseling. If you are, you must be willing to cease or pause services prior to starting to work with your couples therapist for the duration of your participation in the study (during active treatment and for 6 months following)

In deciding to participate in this study, you agree to the following:

  • You may be paired with a Certified Gottman Therapist that is offering teletherapy.
    • The availability of in-person services will depend on both what type of services therapists licensed to work in your location are offering, as well as whether you are located close enough to them to make traveling to meet in-person feasible.
  • You will be randomly assigned to either:
    • An immediate treatment group. For this group, you can begin treatment immediately, or as soon as you are able to book an appointment
    • A 3-week waitlist group. For this group, you will be given an assessment to complete, and then will book your first session 3 weeks out.
  • You agree to repeat the Gottman assessment questionnaires at 3 or 4 time points during the study (depending on your randomly-assigned treatment group). These assessments will be provided to you at no additional cost.
    • These are the same questionnaires used by Gottman-trained therapists with their regular clients. As part of the study, we are asking participants to complete the questionnaires a greater number of times than you would normally fill them out, were you not participating in research.
  • Every four sessions or so, you will also be sent a brief, optional survey about your experience in therapy

Do you live in a qualifying location?

We have participating therapists in the following locations.

Both in-person and telehealth options are available.

You may participate in-person with therapist if there if one available near you in one of the cities listed.

You can also opt to see a therapist online via telehealth if you live in any of the states listed (note that you must still work with a therapist who is licensed to practice within the state you live in). Telehealth may be especially convenient if you live quite a ways away from an available city, or if you live in a state for which there are no available therapists practicing in-person.


ArizonaCarefree, Flagstaff, Scottsdale
CaliforniaAlameda, Costa Mesa, Oakland, Pleasanton, San Carlos, San Diego, San Jose, Santa Rosa 
ColoradoDurango, Denver, Fort Collins, Loveland, Parker
District of ColumbiaWashington
HawaiiHonolulu, Hilo, Kapaa
IllinoisBannockburn, Buffalo Grove, Deerfield, O’Fallon
KansasOverland Park
MarylandBaltimore, Lutherville
NevadaLas Vegas
New Hampshire
New JerseySpringfield
New YorkLee
North CarolinaMebane
North Dakota
OregonDamascus, Happy Valley, Hillsboro, Portland
PennsylvaniaBala Cynwyd, Bryn Mawr
Rhode Island
South Carolina
TexasAustin, Fort Worth, Kingwood, League City, San Antonio
WashingtonBellingham, Edmonds, Everett, Mercer Island, Seattle, Vancouver
West Virginia



Australian Capital Territory (ACT)Canberra
Queensland Brisbane, Carseldine, Gold Coast, Mount Coolum
South AustraliaAdelaide, Glenside


North HollandAmstelveen
ScotlandEdinburgh, Glasgow
United KingdomLondon


Hong KongHong Kong




Teletherapy available worldwide

If you have more questions about the study, please contact [email protected].

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Fees depend on location, depending on both the individual Certified Gottman Therapist as well as the length of sessions (e.g. longer 90-minute sessions cost more than shorter sessions). The form should provide an estimate based on your state or country as you fill out the application, and once you apply to participate in the study, we will also inform you of a possible estimate of a range of session rates before we schedule a screening call to share more information about the study. Most therapists charge rates consistent with the average rates in their area.

  • Yes. Some but not all Certified Gottman Therapists offer a reduced rate for this study. We do offer this to participants who are often marginalized in couples therapy research including BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, low socioeconomic status, disabilities (visible and invisible), etc., to better represent the effectiveness of The Gottman Method for relationships that are not often represented in research. The Gottman Method Couples Therapy has already been established as an Evidence-Based Treamtment for Same-Sex Couples. When responding to the application verification email for the study, please indicate you are interested in the reduced rate.

  • It depends. Some but not all Certified Gottman Therapists accept insurance. Some therapists who do not are still able to offer a Superbill that you can submit to insurance. We would recommend checking with your provider about what they do cover. When responding to the application verification email for the study, please indicate that you are interested in being connected with a therapist who takes insurance and we will do the best we can to find you one.

  • The reason we need you to cease individual and/or group therapy is because it would confound the results of the study. If you are seeing an individual therapist, going to family therapy, or group therapy, we would not be able to say with confidence that The Gottman Method Couples Therapy is what improved the relationship and individual wellbeing. For this reason, we ask that you not participate in any other forms of therapy if you choose to participate in this study.

  • You may resume those services once you complete treatment and the 6-month follow-up period has passed, which is when we send the final assessment and wrap up the study. How long treatment takes it completely up to you and your couples therapist. For clarity, this only applies to talk therapy and similar treatment with a licensed therapist. It is okay for this study to continue to see a psychiatrist for medication management throughout.

  • There are three parts to our answer based on the current literature regarding research on couples therapy. The current research design was approved by an Institutional Review Board. 

    Part A: The cost.

    Most couples therapy research studies are done in university settings in a controlled environment with the benefit of grant funding to allow the cost of therapy to be free. While there is grant funding in other countries for couples therapy, we have not received funding for this research study because there are no funds offered for couples therapy studies at this time in the United States. Not to mention, with a sample size of 120 couples, by far the largest study on couples therapy to date, that would be a very large grant. Despite this, we feel there is still more research needed. In our part to reduce cost, we do offer the assessments for free which is a $475 value. Some of our Certified Gottman Therapists offer sliding scales and insurance (see the section above). 

    Part B: The Therapist

    Most couples therapy studies are completed in controlled conditions such as a university setting with student therapists under a supervisor who may watch the session live (Christensen, et al., 2005). When a couple sees a therapist in their office, there is no supervisor watching every second of the session. The difference in this study is that the counselors being seen are not students but fully licensed therapists who are specifically trained to work with couples using the Gottman Method. 

    The purpose of this study is to evaluate the effectiveness of Gottman Method Couples Therapy with couples seen in typical therapy offices. Previous studies on the effectiveness of couples therapy indicated that interventions need to be stronger to effectively help couples. This study requires that participating therapists be Certified Gottman Therapists. A Certified Gottman Therapist has completed three levels of training in Gottman Method couples therapy, had multiple videos of their work scrutinized by Master Trainer Gottman Therapists, and passed a video review process demonstrating that they can effectively use Gottman interventions with couples. There are currently only 411 of therapists that meet these qualifications in the world. By agreeing to participate as a therapist in this study they have agreed to follow the Gottman Method protocol by using the appropriate interventions at the appropriate time during treatment.

    Part C: Efficacy Studies In University Settings Do Not Translate to Real Therapy Offices

    The efficacy studies in university settings fail to reproduce similar results in a naturalistic setting such as a typical therapy office (Halford, Pepping, & Petch, 2016). Again, this has to do with supervision as well as the type of therapist being studied. 

    We also know that the screening procedures of university-based outcome studies often include a population that is only 0.5 standard deviation below the mean, meaning they are slightly unhappy (Gottman & Gottman, 2018). However, many couples starting couples therapy are 2.5 standard deviations below the mean indicating high levels of distress (Gottman et al., 2020). This highlights that the university-based outcome studies don’t include the kinds of couples seen in a typical therapist office. Our data from 40,681 couples starting couples therapy indicate that over 80% of couples about to start therapy have serious problems with both conflict and intimacy (Gottman et al., 2020). 

    Furthermore, the university based studies on the effectiveness of couples therapy screen out many couples who struggle with substance abuse, bipolar, and personality disorders (Baucom et al., 2009; Christensen et al. 2010.). Our data indicates that these struggles are the norm and we need to learn how to help couples with these challenges in a therapy office. 


Baucom, B. R., Atkins, D. C., Simpson, L. E., & Christensen, A. (2009). Prediction of response to treatment in a randomized clinical trial of couple therapy: A 2-year follow-up. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 77(1), 160–173.

Christensen, A., Atkins, D. C., Baucom, B., & Yi, J. (2010). Marital status and satisfaction five years following a randomized clinical trial comparing traditional versus integrative behavioral couple therapy. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 78(2), 225–235.

Christensen, A., Baucom, D. H., Vu, C. T.-A., & Stanton, S. (2005). Methodologically Sound, Cost-Effective Research on the Outcome of Couple Therapy. Journal of Family Psychology, 19(1), 6–17.

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Gottman, J. M., Gottman, J. S., Cole, C., & Preciado, M. (2020). Gay, Lesbian, and Heterosexual Couples About to Begin Couples Therapy: An Online Relationship Assessment of 40,681 Couples. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, jmft.12395.

Halford, W. K., Pepping, C. A., & Petch, J. (2016). The Gap Between Couple Therapy Research Efficacy and Practice Effectiveness. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 42(1), 32–44.