Love with Intention
All About
Love
Relationship Skills, Simplified
Deepen your connection, build trust and commitment, and make time for fun and playfulness with tools and exercises designed to bring you and your partner closer together.
Includes three coach products: Loving Out Loud, Building a Life Together, and How To Make Your Relationship Work
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
All About Love
Sweeten Your Connection
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Expert guidance for a healthier, more connected relationship.
Everything You Need to Love Each Other Better
Everything You Need to Love Each Other Better
The All About Love Bundle is your complete roadmap to a deeper, more intentional relationship.
Whether you’re newly committed or decades in, this three-part digital collection from Drs John and Julie Gottman teaches you how to build trust, express love, and create a shared life filled with joy, meaning, and connection.
Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s a practice. This bundle helps you:
- Replace negativity with laughter, communication, and warmth
- Express love in ways your partner truly hears, feels, and appreciates
- Create rituals of connection that strengthen your bond
- Build trust and commitment through shared goals and dreams
$137.00
$298.00
Short Lessons. Big Shifts.
Real Connection.
Every relationship has ups and downs, but learning how to love intentionally makes all the difference. All About Love, created by renowned relationship experts Drs. John and Julie Gottman, helps couples build trust, strengthen emotional connection, and create a more meaningful, lasting partnership using decades of research-based insights.
This bundle includes three bestselling programs from the Gottman Relationship Coach series:
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
With this bundle, you’ll get three bestselling Coach programs.
How to Make Your Relationship Work
Original price was: $119.00.$77.00Current price is: $77.00.
Master the Gottman Method, eliminate harmful patterns, and build a Sound Relationship House.
Loving Out Loud
Original price was: $69.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Enhance fondness and admiration, express appreciation, and nurture emotional intimacy.
Building a Life Together
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Discover shared dreams, deepen commitment, and bring more play and adventure into your relationship.
What’s Inside this Bundle?
- 43 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 15 interactive exercises to practice new skills
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Level Up Your Love
Do you want to learn the skills you need to connect with your partner and love them more deeply? It’s time to learn from the experts on love and build a meaningful, full life with your significant other!
Grounded in over 50 years of research, the three programs in this bundle are designed to be practical, engaging, and transformative, and have been perfectly bundled to help you strengthen your love, deepen trust and commitment, and build a strong foundation to last a lifetime.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Short Lessons. Big Shifts.
Real Connection.
Product description
Every relationship has ups and downs, but learning how to love intentionally makes all the difference. All About Love, created by renowned relationship experts Drs. John and Julie Gottman, helps couples build trust, strengthen emotional connection, and create a more meaningful, lasting partnership using decades of research-based insights.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 43 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 15 interactive exercises to practice new skills
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Do you want to learn the skills you need to connect with your partner and love them more deeply? It’s time to learn from the experts on love and build a meaningful, full life with your significant other!
Grounded in over 50 years of research, the three programs in this bundle are designed to be practical, engaging, and transformative, and have been perfectly bundled to help you strengthen your love, deepen trust and commitment, and build a strong foundation to last a lifetime.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the All About Love Bundle?
The All About Love Bundle is a three-part digital program designed to help couples deepen their love.
In this bundle, you’ll get three bestselling Gottman Coach programs:
- How to Make Your Relationship Work
- Loving Out Loud
- Building a Life Together
What is a Gottman Relationship Coach?
Gottman Relationship Coaches are self-guided programs based on the popular Gottman Method. The All About Conflict Bundle contains 2 Relationship Coaches: Dealing with Conflict and Making Up After an Argument.
Gottman Relationship Coaches provide an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in any Gottman Relationship Coach introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Who is this bundle for?
This Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle is for any couple (newly dating, long-term, married, or in committed partnerships) who wants to improve how they handle conflict and deepen their emotional connection.
Do I need to be in a relationship to benefit from the Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle?
While the content is designed for couples, individuals can absolutely benefit by learning healthier communication and conflict resolution skills for any relationship.
Is this therapy?
No, Gottman Relationship Coach Bundles are not therapy, but they are built by therapists. The bundle offers therapy-level tools based on the Gottman Method, which has helped millions of couples worldwide.
Where do I access the content?
All materials are available digitally once purchased through Gottman Connect.
Can I share this with my partner?
Yes! One purchase gives access you can use with a partner through single access.
How soon will we see results?
Many couples notice shifts after just one lesson or exercise. The tools are designed to be applied immediately in real-life conversations.
What if my partner isn’t interested?
Even if only one partner engages, the tools can still create positive change. Often, one person modeling healthier relationship habits inspires the other to join in.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Your Moments of Love, All in One Place
Start building a relationship where love is part of everyday life.
The All About Love Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Build a Stronger Relationship
- Communicate with Love and Understanding
- Keep the Romance Alive for Years to Come
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Ignite Passion and Explore Sensuality
Enriching Your
Sex Life
Sexual Intimacy Starts With Emotional Connection
Original price was: $79.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Enriching Your Sex Life
Sexual Intimacy Starts With Emotional Connection
Original price was: $79.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Struggling With Physical Intimacy
in Your Relationship?
Struggling With Physical Intimacy
in Your Relationship?
When sex feels distant, awkward, or emotionally disconnected, it’s easy to wonder what’s wrong. But the truth is: intimacy isn’t just physical; it’s emotional and deeply personal!
Enriching Your Sex Life offers insight into what makes sex amazing and helps couples turn awkwardness into openness, to create a sex life that feels safe, exciting, and deeply connected.
In Enriching Your Sex Life you’ll learn how to explore intimacy with curiosity, compassion, and confidence in order to deepen emotional and physical connection.
$37.00
$79.00
Sexual Intimacy Starts With Emotional Connection
Sexual intimacy is deeply personal, but it involves both partners. Gottman Institute research shows that when couples feel safe, seen, and emotionally connected, physical intimacy becomes more fulfilling. Without these pieces, sex may be lacking or unsatisfactory.
Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this program is part of the powerful Gottman Relationship Coach series and offers a safe, proven approach to improving sexual connection. Based on over 50 years of research, this program offers important secrets to having amazing sex.
Original price was: $79.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 5 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Real-life examples and role plays to guide you
- Three digital “Salsa Card” decks
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships deeply intimate. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build strong emotional and physical connections.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $79.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Sexual Intimacy Starts
With Emotional Connection
Product description
Sexual intimacy is deeply personal, but it involves both partners. Gottman Institute research shows that when couples feel safe, seen, and emotionally connected, physical intimacy becomes more fulfilling. Without these pieces, sex may be lacking or unsatisfactory.
Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this program is part of the powerful Gottman Relationship Coach series and offers a safe, proven approach to improving sexual connection. Based on over 50 years of research, this program offers important secrets to having amazing sex.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 5 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Real-life examples and role plays to guide you
- Three digital “Salsa Card” decks
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships deeply intimate. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build strong emotional and physical connections.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (5 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Rediscover Intimacy. Rekindle Connection
Intimacy isn’t just about sex, it’s about feeling known, cherished, and emotionally safe.
The All About Intimacy Bundle offers a science-backed, emotionally intelligent path to deeper connection.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Communicate about sex with clarity and care
- Build trust, safety, and emotional connection
- Navigate differences in desire with compassion
- And much more..
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Do you only want Enriching Your Sex Life?
Get a bundle valued at $298 that includes Enriching Your Sex Life.
Original price was: $79.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Building a Life Together
Building a
Life Together
From “Me” to “We”
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Building a Life Together
From “Me” to “We”
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
From “Me” to “We”:
Start Building Your Life Together
From “Me” to “We”:
Start Building Your Life Together
You’re not just planning a life, you’re choosing a future you both want!
You can build the relationship you’ve always dreamed of with Building a Life Together, a self-paced program from the world’s leading relationship experts, designed to give you all the tools needed to create a strong foundation for lifelong partnership.
Grounded in over 50 years of relationship research, this multimedia experience helps couples move from “me” to “we” by offering science-backed tools to strengthen commitment, communication, and shared purpose.
$87.00
$149.00
Choose Each Other
Every Day
You’ve decided to build a life together, but don’t know where to start?
In Building a Life Together, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the journey of trust and commitment towards lasting love. With shared goals and new dreams, you will experience plenty of fun and play along the way, while never losing sight of the intimacy and romance that brought you together.
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 12 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Real-life examples and guided reflections
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
You’ve decided to build a life together, but don’t know where to start?
In Building a Life Together, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the journey of trust and commitment towards lasting love. With shared goals and new dreams, you will experience plenty of fun and play along the way, while never losing sight of the intimacy and romance that brought you together.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Choose Each Other Every Day
Product description
You’ve decided to build a life together, but don’t know where to start?
In Building a Life Together, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the journey of trust and commitment towards lasting love. With shared goals and new dreams, you will experience plenty of fun and play along the way, while never losing sight of the intimacy and romance that brought you together.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 12 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Real-life examples and guided reflections
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
You’ve decided to build a life together, but don’t know where to start?
In Building a Life Together, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the journey of trust and commitment towards lasting love. With shared goals and new dreams, you will experience plenty of fun and play along the way, while never losing sight of the intimacy and romance that brought you together.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (12 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Your Moments of Love, All in One Place
Start building a relationship where love is part of everyday life.
The All About Love Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Build a Stronger Relationship
- Communicate with Love and Understanding
- Keep the Romance Alive for Years to Come
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Do you only want Building a Better Life?
Get a bundle valued at $298 that includes Building a Better Life.
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Your Conflict First Aid Kit
All About
Conflict
Find Your Way Back to Love
Gain skills to approach conflict conversations, learn how to self-soothe, and discover the transformative power of repair.
Includes two Coach programs: Dealing with Conflict and Making Up After an Argument
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
All About Conflict
Find Your Way Back to Love
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Step by step, you can transform how you connect.
From Tension to Understanding, One Conversation at a Time
From Tension to Understanding, One Conversation at a Time
The All About Conflict Bundle is your relationship’s first aid kit: a science-backed, emotionally intelligent toolbox to help you learn how to break old patterns, handle tough moments with more care and clarity, and repair and heal after arguments.
It’s not about changing who you are, it’s about approaching conflict in a healthier, more productive way. Even in moments of disagreement, the All About Conflict Bundle helps you grow closer by transforming how you connect and communicate. You’ll learn to understand recurring fights, start difficult conversations gently, manage emotional flooding, make repair attempts, and rebuild trust when it matters most.
$137.00
$298.00
Short Lessons. Big Shifts.
Real Connection.
It’s not about changing who you are, it’s about approaching conflict in a healthier, more productive way. At the core, every relationship is made up of two people shaped by past experiences, beliefs, wounds, and dreams, so it’s no wonder you trigger each other sometimes without meaning to. Even in the face of disagreement, the All About Conflict Bundle helps you navigate inevitable conflict in ways that bring you closer rather than push you apart.
With this bundle, you’ll get two bestselling Coach programs:
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
With this bundle, you’ll get two bestselling Coach programs.
Making Up After an Argument
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Has an argument left you feeling hurt, misunderstood, and emotionally distant? Your relationship can heal and conflict doesn’t have to break your bond!
Dealing with Conflict
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Arguments don’t mean your relationship is broken; they mean you care enough to fight. But without the right tools, conflict can erode trust and intimacy and hurt your relationship.
What’s Inside this Bundle?
- 32 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 13 interactive exercises to practice new skills
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
The Science of Fighting Fair and Loving Better
Research shows that the average couple endures 6 years of unhappiness before seeking help. During that time, the emotional toll on your relationship continues to grow.
Developed from over 50 years of scientific research and based on the world-renowned Gottman Method, which has been used to help millions of couples around the world, the All About Conflict Bundle was developed to help achieve just this!
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Short Lessons. Big Shifts.
Real Connection.
Product description
It’s not about changing who you are, it’s about approaching conflict in a healthier, more productive way. At the core, every relationship is made up of two people shaped by past experiences, beliefs, wounds, and dreams, so it’s no wonder you trigger each other sometimes without meaning to. Even in the face of disagreement, the All About Conflict Bundle helps you navigate inevitable conflict in ways that bring you closer rather than push you apart.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 32 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 13 interactive exercises to practice new skills
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Research shows that the average couple endures 6 years of unhappiness before seeking help. During that time, the emotional toll on your relationship continues to grow.
Developed from over 50 years of scientific research and based on the world-renowned Gottman Method, which has been used to help millions of couples around the world, the All About Conflict Bundle was developed to help achieve just this!
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the All About Conflict Bundle?
The All About Conflict Bundle is a two-part digital program designed to help couples navigate conflict with more empathy, clarity, and connection. You’ll learn how to break old patterns, repair after arguments, and grow closer during tough moments.
In this bundle, you’ll get two bestselling Gottman Coach programs:
- Dealing with Conflict
- Making Up After an Argument
What is a Gottman Relationship Coach?
Gottman Relationship Coaches are self-guided programs based on the popular Gottman Method. The All About Conflict Bundle contains 2 Relationship Coaches: Dealing with Conflict and Making Up After an Argument.
Gottman Relationship Coaches provide an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in any Gottman Relationship Coach introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Who is this bundle for?
This Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle is for any couple (newly dating, long-term, married, or in committed partnerships) who wants to improve how they handle conflict and deepen their emotional connection.
Do I need to be in a relationship to benefit from the Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle?
While the content is designed for couples, individuals can absolutely benefit by learning healthier communication and conflict resolution skills for any relationship.
Is this therapy?
No, Gottman Relationship Coach Bundles are not therapy, but they are built by therapists. The bundle offers therapy-level tools based on the Gottman Method, which has helped millions of couples worldwide.
Where do I access the content?
All materials are available digitally once purchased through Gottman Connect.
Can I share this with my partner?
Yes! One purchase gives access you can use with a partner through single access.
How soon will we see results?
Many couples notice shifts after just one lesson or exercise. The tools are designed to be applied immediately in real-life conversations.
What if my partner isn’t interested?
Even if only one partner engages, the tools can still create positive change. Often, one person modeling healthier relationship habits inspires the other to join in.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
Have More Questions?
From Tension to Understanding,
One Conversation at a Time
Approaching conflict in a healthier, more productive way!
The All About Conflict Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Why you keep fighting about the same things
- How to gently start tough conversations
- How to express feelings without triggering defensiveness
- And much more..
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Learn How to Fight Right
Making Up After
an Argument
Fighting Doesn’t Have to Drive You Apart
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Making Up After an Argument
Fighting Doesn’t Have to Drive You Apart
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Reconnect, Repair,
and Move Forward
Reconnect, Repair,
and Move Forward
Has an argument left you feeling hurt, misunderstood, and emotionally distant? Your relationship can heal and conflict doesn’t have to break your bond!
Making Up After an Argument is a self-paced online program that will help you and your partner reconnect, repair, and move forward after conflict.
Developed by the world’s leading relationship experts, this program teaches you simple, proven ways to calm down after a fight, take responsibility for your part, and help each other feel safe again.
$87.00
$149.00
Healing is Possible
Whether you’re stuck in recurring conflict, high tension situations, or just had a blow-up, this program gives you the clarity and structure to move past disagreements, repair any hurt, and dispel any lingering resentment.
The course doesn’t just give you a fresh start, but rather a way to find deeper understanding and connection in the aftermath of an argument.
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 17 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 5 interactive exercises to help you apply what you learn
- Access to the powerful “Aftermath of a Fight” and “5 Steps for After a Fight” exercise
- Role plays based on real-life situations that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples around the world build stronger, more resilient connections. The Making Up After an Argument program distills that wisdom into practical, actionable lessons you can use today.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Healing is Possible
Product description
Whether you’re stuck in recurring conflict, high tension situations, or just had a blow-up, this program gives you the clarity and structure to move past disagreements, repair any hurt, and dispel any lingering resentment.
The course doesn’t just give you a fresh start, but rather a way to find deeper understanding and connection in the aftermath of an argument.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 17 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 5 interactive exercises to help you apply what you learn
- Access to the powerful “Aftermath of a Fight” and “5 Steps for After a Fight” exercise
- Role plays based on real-life situations that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples around the world build stronger, more resilient connections. The Making Up After an Argument program distills that wisdom into practical, actionable lessons you can use today.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (17 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 7 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
From Tension to Understanding,
One Conversation at a Time
Approaching conflict in a healthier, more productive way!
The All About Conflict Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Why you keep fighting about the same things
- How to gently start tough conversations
- How to express feelings without triggering defensiveness
- And much more..
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Do you only want Making Up After an Argument?
Get a bundle valued at $298 that includes Making Up After an Argument.
$87.00
$149.00
Turn Conflict into Connection
Dealing with
Conflict
Turn Conflict into Connection
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Dealing with Conflict
Turn Conflict into Connection
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Frustrated by Conflict in Your Relationship?
Frustrated by Conflict in Your Relationship?
Arguments don’t mean your relationship is broken; they mean you care enough to fight. But without the right tools, conflict can erode trust and intimacy and hurt your relationship.
Dealing with Conflict is a self-paced online program that helps couples transform arguments into meaningful opportunities for deeper connection.
As one of the powerful programs offered in the larger Gottman Relationship Coach series, Dealing with Conflict was created using over 50 years of research to offer a practical, proven method that helps you move beyond conflict and build real understanding.
$87.00
$149.00
Turn Conflict into Connection
Every couple argues. But when fights feel repetitive, hurtful, or unresolved, it’s time to learn a better way.
Whether you’re dealing with recurring disagreements as a couple or just want to improve communication in your relationship, this program gives you the tools to fight smarter not harder.
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 15 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to help you apply what you learn
- Role plays based on real-life situations that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships thrive. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $149.00.$87.00Current price is: $87.00.
Turn Conflict into Connection
Product description
Every couple argues. But when fights feel repetitive, hurtful, or unresolved, it’s time to learn a better way.
Whether you’re dealing with recurring disagreements as a couple or just want to improve communication in your relationship, this program gives you the tools to fight smarter not harder.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 15 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to help you apply what you learn
- Role plays based on real-life situations that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships thrive. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (15 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Contact Gottman Support Center
From Tension to Understanding,
One Conversation at a Time
Approaching conflict in a healthier, more productive way!
The All About Conflict Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Why you keep fighting about the same things
- How to gently start tough conversations
- How to express feelings without triggering defensiveness
- And much more..
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Do you only want Dealing with Conflict?
Get a bundle valued at $298 that includes Dealing with Conflict.
$87.00
$149.00
How to Make Your Relationship Work
How to Make Your Relationship Work
Create a Strong Relationship that Lasts
Original price was: $119.00.$77.00Current price is: $77.00.
How to Make Your Relationship Work
Create a Strong Relationship that Lasts
Original price was: $119.00.$77.00Current price is: $77.00.
Let Your Love Shine
Create a Strong Relationship that Lasts
Let Your Love Shine
Create a Strong Relationship that Lasts
When communication breaks down, even the strongest relationships can feel lonely. But disconnection doesn’t mean it’s over, it means it’s time to rebuild and reconnect!
How to Make Your Relationship Work is a self-paced digital program that helps couples trade harmful communication patterns for connection, laughter, and lasting love.
Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman and grounded in over 50 years of research, How to Make Your Relationship Work gives you the proven tools to grow closer, communicate better, and feel more like a team.
$77.00
$119.00
Feel Aligned and Supported in Your Telationship
Every relationship has ups and downs, but knowing how to navigate them makes all the difference. How to Make Your Relationship Work was created by the world’s leading experts on love and relationships to help couples deepen emotional connection, build trust and intimacy, and manage conflict.
Original price was: $119.00.$77.00Current price is: $77.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 25 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 4 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Role plays that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships truly work. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $119.00.$77.00Current price is: $77.00.
Feel Aligned and Supported in Your Telationship
Product description
Every relationship has ups and downs, but knowing how to navigate them makes all the difference. How to Make Your Relationship Work was created by the world’s leading experts on love and relationships to help couples deepen emotional connection, build trust and intimacy, and manage conflict.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 25 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 4 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Role plays that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships truly work. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (25 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 4 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Your Moments of Love, All in One Place
Start building a relationship where love is part of everyday life.
The All About Love Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Build a Stronger Relationship
- Communicate with Love and Understanding
- Keep the Romance Alive for Years to Come
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Do you only want How to Make Your Relationship Work?
Get a bundle valued at $298 that includes How to Make Your Relationship Work
$77.00
$119.00
Find Your Fearless Love
Loving Out Loud
Fade: Show Up, Speak Up, and Love Fearlessly!
Original price was: $69.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Loving Out Loud
Fade: Show Up, Speak Up, and Love Fearlessly!
Original price was: $69.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Don’t Let the Love Fade:
Speak Up, and Love Fearlessly!
Don’t Let the Love Fade:
Speak Up, and Love Fearlessly!
Building and keeping your love alive needs work, because love isn’t just a feeling; it’s something we have to do out loud, every day!
Whether you’re feeling taken for granted or that you need to reignite the spark and strengthen your bond, the self-paced digital program, Loving Out Loud, will help you make your love flourish and your relationship thrive.
Through expert guidance from Drs. John and Julie Gottman, you’ll learn how to turn appreciation, affection, and emotional support into daily habits that deepen your connection and make your love stronger.
$37.00
$69.00
Small Moments, Big Love
Even the happiest couples can fall into autopilot where “I love you” isn’t said as often. You take each other for granted and don’t express appreciation enough. You still love each other, but some of the ‘spark’ has faded and you’re not quite sure where the magic went.
Developed by the world’s leading experts on love, Loving Out Loud helps you make the practice and expression of love intentional. With simple yet powerful practices, you’ll learn how to make love a daily habit, rekindling the spark, rediscovering the magic, and deepening the intimacy you both deserve.
Original price was: $69.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 7 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive and research-based exercises and conversation starters
- Tools to build your own Sound Relationship House
- Techniques for asking better questions and expressing appreciation
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build deeply loving relationships. Loving Out Loud distills that wisdom into lots of bite-sized lessons you can use everyday.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $69.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Small Moments, Big Love
Product description
Even the happiest couples can fall into autopilot where “I love you” isn’t said as often. You take each other for granted and don’t express appreciation enough. You still love each other, but some of the ‘spark’ has faded and you’re not quite sure where the magic went.
Developed by the world’s leading experts on love, Loving Out Loud helps you make the practice and expression of love intentional. With simple yet powerful practices, you’ll learn how to make love a daily habit, rekindling the spark, rediscovering the magic, and deepening the intimacy you both deserve.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 7 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive and research-based exercises and conversation starters
- Tools to build your own Sound Relationship House
- Techniques for asking better questions and expressing appreciation
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build deeply loving relationships. Loving Out Loud distills that wisdom into lots of bite-sized lessons you can use everyday.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (7 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Rediscover Intimacy. Rekindle Connection
Intimacy isn’t just about sex, it’s about feeling known, cherished, and emotionally safe.
The All About Intimacy Bundle offers a science-backed, emotionally intelligent path to deeper connection.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Communicate about sex with clarity and care
- Build trust, safety, and emotional connection
- Navigate differences in desire with compassion
- And much more..
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Do you only want Loving Out Loud?
Get a bundle valued at $298 that includes Loving Out Loud.
Original price was: $69.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Feel the Power of Effective Communication
Feeling Seen
and Heard
Feel the Power of Good Communication
Original price was: $149.00.$67.00Current price is: $67.00.
Feeling Seen and Heard
Feel the Power of Good Communication
Original price was: $149.00.$67.00Current price is: $67.00.
Struggling With Communication in Your Relationship?
Struggling With Communication in Your Relationship?
When your partner doesn’t truly hear you, it’s easy to feel alone, even when you’re together. But this doesn’t have to be the case!
Discover the online program that helps couples really connect through empathy, presence, and deep listening. Feeling Seen and Heard is your path to deeper emotional intimacy, clearer communication, and lasting connection.
Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, Feeling Seen and Heard is a self-paced digital experience that teaches essential communication skills and helps you grow an emotional connection to feel closer to your partner.
$67.00
$149.00
Feel the Power of
Good Communication!
In every strong relationship, feeling seen and heard is essential. You need to feel that your person truly “gets you”. But life gets busy, communication gets messy, and sometimes it feels like you’re speaking different languages.
Backed by decades of research and designed by the world’s leading relationship experts, this program gives you the tools to move past miscommunication, validate each other’s emotions, and create a deeper emotional bond.
Original price was: $149.00.$67.00Current price is: $67.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 13 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to practice new skills
- Entertaining role plays that demonstrate common communication pitfalls and how to fix them
- New audio content for immersive learning
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped more than 100,000 couples build lasting relationships filled with love and respect. Feeling Seen and Heard brings that wisdom to life through practical lessons that help you reconnect, listen deeply, and show up for each other every single day.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $149.00.$67.00Current price is: $67.00.
Feel the Power of
Good Communication!
Product description
In every strong relationship, feeling seen and heard is essential. You need to feel that your person truly “gets you”. But life gets busy, communication gets messy, and sometimes it feels like you’re speaking different languages.
Backed by decades of research and designed by the world’s leading relationship experts, this program gives you the tools to move past miscommunication, validate each other’s emotions, and create a deeper emotional bond.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 13 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to practice new skills
- Entertaining role plays that demonstrate common communication pitfalls and how to fix them
- New audio content for immersive learning
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped more than 100,000 couples build lasting relationships filled with love and respect. Feeling Seen and Heard brings that wisdom to life through practical lessons that help you reconnect, listen deeply, and show up for each other every single day.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (13 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Rediscover Intimacy. Rekindle Connection
Intimacy isn’t just about sex, it’s about feeling known, cherished, and emotionally safe.
The All About Intimacy Bundle offers a science-backed, emotionally intelligent path to deeper connection.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Communicate about sex with clarity and care
- Build trust, safety, and emotional connection
- Navigate differences in desire with compassion
- And much more..
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Do you only want Feeling Seen and Heard?
Get a bundle valued at $298 that includes Feeling Seen and Heard.
Original price was: $149.00.$67.00Current price is: $67.00.
Take Intimacy to New Heights
All About
Intimacy
Feel Closer in Every Way
Learn new ways to cherish each other, enhance the fondness and admiration in your relationship, and discover the secrets to amazing sex.
Includes three Coach products: Enriching Your Sex Life, Loving Out Loud, and Feeling Seen and Heard.
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
All About Intimacy
Feel Closer in Every Way
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Reignite your chemistry with expert guidance.
Rediscover Intimacy.
Rekindle Connection
Rediscover Intimacy.
Rekindle Connection
Whether you’re feeling distant, stuck in routine, or simply craving more closeness, the All About Intimacy Bundle offers a science-backed, emotionally intelligent path to deeper connection.
Intimacy isn’t just about sex, it’s about feeling known, cherished, and emotionally safe. This bundle helps you:
- Reignite physical closeness with compassion and curiosity
- Express and receive love in ways that are truly felt and appreciated
- Build trust and commitment through everyday moments
- Explore what intimacy means in your relationship
$137.00
$298.00
Short Lessons. Big Shifts.
Real Connection.
Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this digital collection helps couples strengthen emotional intimacy, physical closeness, and everyday affection, without awkward conversation prompts or unrealistic expectations.
This bundle includes three bestselling programs from the Gottman Relationship Coach series:
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
With this bundle, you’ll get three bestselling Coach programs.
Enriching Your Sex Life
Original price was: $79.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Build safety and trust for physical intimacy and reignite desire and explore pleasure together.
Loving Out Loud
Original price was: $69.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Enhance fondness and admiration, express appreciation, and nurture emotional intimacy.
Feeling Seen and Heard
Original price was: $149.00.$67.00Current price is: $67.00.
Deepen emotional intimacy through trust, commitment, and playfulness.
What’s Inside this Bundle?
- 25 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 18 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Real-life examples and role plays to guide you
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Build Real Intimacy: Heart, Mind, and Body
Backed by over 50 years of research, the world-renowned Gottman Method shows that emotional intimacy and friendship are the foundation of lasting passion and connection. When routine, stress, or unresolved pain begin to create distance, intimacy can suffer. The All About Love Bundle meets you where you are, offering practical, research-based tools to help you rebuild trust, deepen emotional closeness, and create a relationship where love, desire, and connection can continue to grow over time.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Short Lessons. Big Shifts.
Real Connection.
Product description
Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this digital collection helps couples strengthen emotional intimacy, physical closeness, and everyday affection, without awkward conversation prompts or unrealistic expectations.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 25 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 18 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Real-life examples and role plays to guide you
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the world-renowned Gottman Method shows that emotional intimacy and friendship are the foundation of lasting passion and connection. When routine, stress, or unresolved pain begin to create distance, intimacy can suffer. The All About Love Bundle meets you where you are, offering practical, research-based tools to help you rebuild trust, deepen emotional closeness, and create a relationship where love, desire, and connection can continue to grow over time.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the All About Intimacy Bundle?
The All About Intimacy Bundle is a three-part digital program designed to help couples grow intimacy.
In this bundle, you’ll get three bestselling Gottman Coach programs:
- Enriching Your Sex Life
- Loving Out Loud
- Feeling Seen and Heard
What is a Gottman Relationship Coach?
Gottman Relationship Coaches are self-guided programs based on the popular Gottman Method. The All About Conflict Bundle contains 2 Relationship Coaches: Dealing with Conflict and Making Up After an Argument.
Gottman Relationship Coaches provide an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in any Gottman Relationship Coach introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Who is this bundle for?
This Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle is for any couple (newly dating, long-term, married, or in committed partnerships) who wants to improve how they handle conflict and deepen their emotional connection.
Do I need to be in a relationship to benefit from the Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle?
While the content is designed for couples, individuals can absolutely benefit by learning healthier communication and conflict resolution skills for any relationship.
Is this therapy?
No, Gottman Relationship Coach Bundles are not therapy, but they are built by therapists. The bundle offers therapy-level tools based on the Gottman Method, which has helped millions of couples worldwide.
Where do I access the content?
All materials are available digitally once purchased through Gottman Connect.
Can I share this with my partner?
Yes! One purchase gives access you can use with a partner through single access.
How soon will we see results?
Many couples notice shifts after just one lesson or exercise. The tools are designed to be applied immediately in real-life conversations.
What if my partner isn’t interested?
Even if only one partner engages, the tools can still create positive change. Often, one person modeling healthier relationship habits inspires the other to join in.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Rediscover Intimacy. Rekindle Connection
Intimacy isn’t just about sex, it’s about feeling known, cherished, and emotionally safe.
The All About Intimacy Bundle offers a science-backed, emotionally intelligent path to deeper connection.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Communicate about sex with clarity and care
- Build trust, safety, and emotional connection
- Navigate differences in desire with compassion
- And much more..
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
Gottman Relationship Adviser
Get Back to Basics
It’s Time to Focus on Your Relationship
Original price was: $250.00.$157.00Current price is: $157.00.
Modern love needs modern tools. Gottman Relationship Adviser guides you step by step toward stronger communication and deeper connection.
PLUS, get lucky in love and purchase the Adviser between March 17-18 and receive the Emotional Pot of Gold download FOR FREE!
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✓ No therapist waitlist
✓ 15,000+ couples transformed
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Stronger Relationships Start Here
Imagine not having to fight so much. Experience the joy of waking up next to someone you truly trust. Picture feeling safe in the friendship and deep bond between you.
The Gottman Relationship Adviser provides you with personalized guidance today.
This tool teaches you the skills to build trust, repair conflict, and deepen emotional connection.
Available exclusively here, it provides personalized insights, expert guidance, and proven, actionable steps to transform your relationship.
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✓ Satisfaction guaranteed
✓ No therapist waitlist
✓ 15,000+ couples transformed
Don't Wait Any Longer
Get the Gottman Relationship Adviser today and start making improvements immediately.
You’ll start by taking a research-based relationship assessment to reflect on how you’re doing across key areas like communication, conflict, trust, intimacy, and friendship.
Once your results are in, the Adviser creates a personalized plan tailored to your unique relationship dynamics. You’ll get…
- A tailored action plan for your relationship
- Video lessons from the experts
- Guided exercises and role-plays
- Actionable tools you can put into practice right away
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Original price was: $250.00.$157.00Current price is: $157.00.
The Steps Are Easy And Simple
The Gottman Relationship Adviser offers fresh insights, new information, and practical skills to tackle real issues, providing a step-by-step plan for improvement. It acts as a true compass, guiding you toward a happier, stronger bond.
Step 1
Take the Assessment Alone or With Your Partner
Take a scientific Gottman questionnaire to measure your relationship health with a brand new category on deep emotional connections. It’s easy and takes under an hour. You can take breaks at any time and come back later.
Step 2
Explore Your Connection Compass
Your assessment results instantly generate a report featuring the new Gottman Connection Compass. This interactive tool helps you explore seven key relationship areas required for relationship success.
Step 3
Start Your Customized Plan
The Adviser will provide you with a personalized relationship improvement plan using your Connection Compass results. Explore videos, exercises, card decks, discussion questions, and more. Learn relationship tips and pitfalls directly from world experts. Follow the plan and get started building your dream connection.
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Personal Relationship Adviser
Examines seven key relationship areas essential for lasting happiness, giving you a customized plan to build the relationship you want.
Clear Reports and Actionable Plans
Based on your answers, receive a clear, easy-to-understand report and actionable plan.
Understand Your Compatibility
Get a deeper understanding of compatibility with your partner and proven tools to help.
Engaging Exercises
Enjoy engaging exercises and videos in your personal plan to help you reach your goals.
Track Your Progress
Includes two assessments for tracking your progress.
Take the Guesswork Out
Get deep insights that reveal crucial aspects of your relationship.
Everyone Can Benefit
It’s never too late to strengthen your relationship. Whether you’ve noticed problems for a week or a decade, the Gottman Relationship Adviser can help. Everyone benefits, and if you’re on a rocky path, you can get back on track.
The Gottman Relationship Adviser offers a cost-effective alternative to traditional therapy. With no recurring appointments, you gain lifetime access to tools and resources that save you time and money. A stronger, healthier relationship positively affects your well-being, health, and vitality.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I do it alone or with my partner?
Yes, you can take it alone or with your partner. There are no waitlists, and no need to also be in therapy. Enjoy the convenience of working from the comfort of your home at your own pace. Works on any device.
We are fighting so much or there is a lot distance, how does this help?
The real obstacles in your relationship are often not what you think. The Gottman Relationship Adviser helps you uncover the true issues and provides a proven, workable plan to address them. If you’re on a rocky path, you stand to change the most. Gain access to solutions that work for you by diagnosing the real underlying strengths and opportunities. Then let yourself be guided by the personalized step-by-step plan you´ll receive.
Feeling overwhelmed about where to start?
It can be daunting to improve your relationship. The Gottman Relationship Adviser makes it easy by breaking down the process into manageable steps. Start with the assessment and let the tool guide you with personalized, actionable insights that make progress feel attainable and exciting.
My current situation hurts. Can I really get to a better place? Is it too late?
It is not too late to strengthen your relationship. Whether you’ve noticed problems for a week or a decade, the Gottman Relationship Adviser can help. If you are considering this tool, you likely haven’t thrown in the towel. Our research shows that those who struggle the most often make the most significant gains. Everyone can benefit, and if you’re on a rocky path, you stand to change the most.
Is it complex or easy to use?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser is designed to be user-friendly and straightforward. The step-by-step process ensures you can navigate it with ease, making it accessible for everyone. It is also fun!
Is it software or an app?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser is an online solution that you can access from any device, anywhere, at any time. No downloads or installations required.
Nervous about couples therapy or can’t find a therapist?
Finding a therapist can be daunting, and even if you do find one, you may be placed on a waitlist. Dip your toes in the water with the Gottman Relationship Adviser. This unparalleled approach to relationship wellness is a completely digital self-paced program that can help you and your partner improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere, without ever seeing a therapist.
Already in couples therapy or actively working on your connection, but want more ways to improve your relationship?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser is an excellent addition to your regular therapy sessions. This research-based assessment and solution tool measures your relationship health with a self-assessment, then provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Tired of getting into arguments? Fighting about the same things over and over? Worried your relationship is at risk?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser can help. This complete relationship wellness tool is designed to assess exactly where your relationship needs help, then provides you with a detailed, step-by-step action plan to improve it.
Does your partner refuse to attend couples therapy? Are you feeling helpless and not sure where to turn for relationship advice?
Try the Gottman Relationship Adviser. This unparalleled approach to relationship wellness is a completely digital self-paced program that can help you and your partner improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere, without ever seeing a therapist.
Can I take the assessment alone?
You can use the Gottman Relationship Adviser individually or with your partner to get a full snapshot of your relationship along with a personalized relationship improvement plan based on your unique needs.
Want to do more to improve your relationship, but don’t know where to start?
Try the new and improved Gottman Relationship Adviser.
Curious what kinds of questions are asked in the Adviser?
Here are just a few of the 100+ questions designed for a detailed analysis of your relationship. You’ll answer most questions with true or false or a sliding scale, depending on the question format.
My partner appreciates the things I do in our relationship.
When my partner is feeling bad, I am willing to meet their needs.
My partner discusses problems in a calm and logical manner.
We keep talking about the same issue over and over with no resolution.
When we are burned out or tired, we have ways of becoming renewed together.
A Happier Relationship Starts Today
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Meet the Gottmans
Drs. John and Julie Gottman have devoted their lives to helping couples build lasting, healthy relationships. Their 50+ years of research powers the Gottman Relationship Adviser, providing you with a tool grounded in decades of expertise.
Gottman Assessment
Gottman Assessment
Find Out What's Really Going on
Understand what the strengths and weaknesses are in your relationship. Get you the help you need.
Original price was: $45.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
Gottman Assessment
Find Out What’s Really Going on
Understand what the strengths and weaknesses are in your relationship. Get you the help you need.
Original price was: $45.00.$37.00Current price is: $37.00.
A Virtual Relationship Evaluation Tool for Couples
A Virtual Relationship Evaluation Tool for Couples
Arguing about the same things over and over and not sure what the problem really is? Or maybe you just want to learn more about the state of your partnership The Gottman Assessment, powered by renowned, research-based Gottman Method, can help you evaluate what is really going on in your relationship, and then recommend solutions proven to strengthen your connection. The assessment measures five key relationship areas: friendship and intimacy, sex and passion, conflict management, shared meaning, and trust and commitment.
Measure relationship happiness
With an overall relationship satisfaction score.
Based on 50+ years of science
Proven, science-backed approaches
100+ research-based questions
Designed to analyze your relationship’s unique strengths and weaknesses.
Take it alone
or together
Invite your partner for more detailed results.
Results can be used with the
Gottman Relationship Adviser
Once you’ve taken the Assessment, you’re almost there! All your responses are saved and ready to shape your unique roadmap. Just log into your Gottman Connect account to transition seamlessly. We’ll deduct the price difference from your purchase, use your Assessment responses to shape your program, and guide you through each exercise.
Get Started In Three Simple Steps
Create your profile
Purchase the Gottman Assessment and quickly set up your profile on Gottman Connect. You’ll have the opportunity to invite your partner if you with to.
Complete the self-assessment
Submit the detailed self-assessment individually using unique logins to ensure privacy. The self-assessment takes about 20 minutes to complete and you can take a break at any time.
View your personalized results
Using your questionnaire and satisfaction score results, the Gottman Assessment will develop an in-depth analysis of your relationship health using Gottman’s nine key principles so you can understand areas where you and your partner excel and where you need improvement. The Assessment then suggests tailored programs proven to help you strengthen it.
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What is the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
The Adviser is an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyze key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection. Improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere.
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What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
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How does the Gottman Relationship Adviser analyze and explain my relationship?
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory, created by world-renowned psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman. The Sound Relationship House is a foundational concept within Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
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Do I have to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with my partner?
No, you have the option to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with or without your partner. You can take the Gottman Relationship Adviser alone to learn about yourself and your relationship, or you can invite your partner to take the Adviser as well, even after starting your own self-assessment. After you log in and invite your partner, they can access the Relationship Adviser by registering on Gottman Connect. Once they register, they will have the option to complete the self-assessment to receive their own custom relationship results..
Will my partner and I receive separate results?
Yes, you and your partner complete your own self-assessment and receive separate results based on your unique answers.
What does the assessment portion of the Gottman Relationship Adviser measure?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser can help you gain insight into your overall relationship health, friendship and intimacy, romance, sex, and passion, how you manage conflict, your shared meaning, trust, commitment, and more.
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
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Embarking on a journey of connection and discovery
Understand the strengths and weaknesses in your relationship.