about a breakup. You’re not talking about anything. You’re talking to just kind of being aware. Yes, So these this this this term are thus the use of these were these letters came from John Gottman who just called a tuna yes, to did tons of research for his entire career relationships. >> So he does cool the thing with a tune to kind of 0.2, what can be done to keep. Marriage relationships or any partnership on a great trajectory. So the first one is awareness right? And one of the things is just being able to be aware of what’s happening in your partner’s world, right. So things like how you doing. Have you been how did it go out? Pick Paul, what’s new? How you’ve been feeling about this right? So got none would call those things. Love maps like the more you know about your partner’s world, the closer the connection is so it’s awareness and taking the time to ask simple questions like you said, like WhatsApp. Well, you