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Talking about sex is more intimate than having sex

Zach Brittle, LMHC

Turns out, the most important part of cultivating a healthy sex life is talking about a healthy sex life.

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Quiz: What Style of Parent are You?

The Gottman Institute

Are you a Disapproving parent? A Dismissing parent? An Emotion Coaching parent? 

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Homework Assignment: Repair Attempts

The Gottman Institute

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R is for Repair

Zach Brittle, LMHC

In relational terms, repair is less about fixing what is broken and more about getting back on track.

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Q is for Questions

Zach Brittle, LMHC

I have to confess, when I opened up my column to your questions, I was really hoping to get a bunch of benign inquiries like: What’s your favorite novel?

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P is for Problems

Zach Brittle, LMHC

John Gottman’s research revealed that about ⅔ of relationship problems are unsolvable. One of my favorite questions for couples is whether that statistic is discouraging orencouraging. 

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O is for Opportunity

Zach Brittle, LMHC

Whenever I work with pre-marital couples, we spend a fair bit of time pondering whatever a marriage actually is. Is it a social contract? A political statement?

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N is for Newlyweds

Zach Brittle, LMHC

In my last post, I suggested an imaginary list of "Top 5 Regrets from the First Year of Marriage." There are at least five things I’d do differently, but I’m not actually sure “regrets” is the right word. 

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Summer Romance

Summer Romance

Julie Gottman

Here are some other ideas for summer romance.

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M is for Money

Zach Brittle, LMHC

Usually, when two people get married, they stand up in front of their friends and family and they make a promise to stick together, no matter what. For better and for worse.

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Homework Assignment: How To Increase Emotional Attraction

The Gottman Institute

See how the stress-reducing conversation helps build emotional attraction and bonds you closer together as a couple.

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Where did the love go

Where Did The Love Go?

Kyle Morrison

The phone rings often at The Gottman Institute. Last week, I answered a call from a young woman distressed about arguments that were ruining what had been, till then, an easy-going relationship with her husband.

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