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Research suggests that physicians underestimate the level and duration of grief experienced by parents of stillborn babies.
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I communicated irregularly with a tendency to criticize, but learning how to communicate assertively ended that pattern.
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Most couples can follow these same steps to begin to restore a broken connection.
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The key to asking engaging questions may be simpler than you think.
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Despite the discomfort, it is time to discuss suicide openly so that we can help save lives.
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