How to Make Your Relationship Work
Create a Strong Relationship that Lasts
$119.00 Original price was: $119.00.$69.00Current price is: $69.00.
How to Make Your Relationship Work
Create a Strong Relationship that Lasts
$119.00 Original price was: $119.00.$69.00Current price is: $69.00.
Let Your Love Shine
Create a Strong Relationship that Lasts
Let Your Love Shine
Create a Strong Relationship that Lasts
When communication breaks down, even the strongest relationships can feel lonely. But disconnection doesn’t mean it’s over, it means it’s time to rebuild and reconnect!
How to Make Your Relationship Work is a self-paced digital program that helps couples trade harmful communication patterns for connection, laughter, and lasting love.
Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman and grounded in over 50 years of research, How to Make Your Relationship Work gives you the proven tools to grow closer, communicate better, and feel more like a team.
$69.00
$119.00
Feel Aligned and Supported in Your Telationship
Every relationship has ups and downs, but knowing how to navigate them makes all the difference. How to Make Your Relationship Work was created by the world’s leading experts on love and relationships to help couples deepen emotional connection, build trust and intimacy, and manage conflict.
$119.00 Original price was: $119.00.$69.00Current price is: $69.00.
Recognize and effectively respond to the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling)
Build your Sound Relationship House step by step
Break out of destructive patterns
Start tough conversations with care
Listen deeply and express needs clearly
Rebuild trust and emotional closeness
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 25 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 4 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Role plays that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships truly work. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
$119.00 Original price was: $119.00.$69.00Current price is: $69.00.
Feel Aligned and Supported in Your Telationship
Product description
Every relationship has ups and downs, but knowing how to navigate them makes all the difference. How to Make Your Relationship Work was created by the world’s leading experts on love and relationships to help couples deepen emotional connection, build trust and intimacy, and manage conflict.
What’s Inside 
this Coach Program?
- 25 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 4 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Role plays that show common mistakes and how to fix them
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
This isn’t just advice, it’s a proven method based on decades of studying what makes relationships truly work. The Gottman Method has helped over 100,000 couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Thank you!
Thank you to the Gottman Institute for providing the tools my partner and I need to create a healthy relationship
Sanchia R.
Gottman Member
Entertaining while being wise
I really like what you have done right here, especially the way in which you make it entertaining while being wise.
K.L.
Gottman Member
Love the role play videos!
We love the Gottman role playing videos that are so relatable and help guide our communication about sensitive subjects. Thank you Gottmans!
Anonymous
Fantastic
Absolutely fantastic. Just a few videos and already transforming our relationship after 10 years of conflict
Anonymous
It taught me a lot
It has been very helpful for me to see where I have been going wrong and only further exasperating situations and taught me better ways in which I can be more loving and patient. This has helped me to become a better listener.
Anonymous
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (25 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 4 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
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Start building a relationship where love is part of everyday life.
The All About Love Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Build a Stronger Relationship
- Communicate with Love and Understanding
- Keep the Romance Alive for Years to Come
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