Change Starts With You
The Gottman Relationship Adviser empowers individuals to work on their relationship by focusing on what you can control: your mindset, your behaviors, and your communication skills.
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Stronger Relationships Start Here
Sometimes, working on your relationship starts with working on yourself. The Gottman Relationship Adviser is designed to help you make meaningful changes, even if your partner isn’t ready to join in.
This tool teaches you the skills to build trust, repair conflicts, and deepen emotional connections.
By showing up for your relationship with the Adviser, you’re not just improving things for yourself. You’re opening the door for your partner to meet you there when they’re ready.
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Original price was: $250.00.$119.00Current price is: $119.00.
You Don't Need to Wait For Your Partner to Make a Change
Get the Gottman Relationship Adviser today and start making improvements immediately, even if your partner isn’t ready to join.
You’ll start by taking a research-based relationship assessment designed to help you reflect on your relationship across key areas like communication, conflict, trust, intimacy, and friendship.
Once your results are in, the Adviser creates a personalized plan tailored to your unique experience and relationship satisfaction. You’ll get…
- A tailored action plan for your relationship
- Video lessons from the experts
- Guided exercises and reflection opportunities
- Actionable tools you can put into practice right away
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Original price was: $250.00.$119.00Current price is: $119.00.
The Steps Are Easy And Simple
The Gottman Relationship Adviser offers fresh insights, new information, and practical skills to tackle real issues, providing a step-by-step plan for improvement. It acts as a true compass, guiding you toward a happier, stronger bond.
Step 1
Take the Assessment
Take a scientific Gottman questionnaire to measure your relationship health and satisfaction. It’s easy and takes under an hour. You can take breaks at any time and come back later.
Step 2
Explore Your Connection Compass
Your assessment results instantly generate a report featuring the new Gottman Connection Compass. This interactive tool helps you explore seven key relationship areas required for relationship success.
Step 3
Start Your Customized Plan
The Adviser will provide you with a personalized relationship improvement plan using your Connection Compass results. Explore videos, exercises, card decks, reflection questions, and more. Learn relationship tips and pitfalls directly from world experts. Follow the plan to start changing your communication patterns.
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Original price was: $250.00.$119.00Current price is: $119.00.
Personal Relationship Adviser
Examines seven key relationship areas essential for lasting happiness, giving you a customized plan to build the relationship you want.
Clear Reports and Actionable Plans
Based on your answers, receive a clear, easy-to-understand report and actionable plan.
Understand Your Compatibility
Get a deeper understanding of compatibility with your partner and proven tools to help.
Engaging Exercises
Enjoy engaging exercises and videos in your personal plan to help you reach your goals.
Track Your Progress
Includes two assessments for tracking your progress.
Take the Guesswork Out
Get deep insights that reveal crucial aspects of your relationship.
Individually or Together, You'll Benefit
It’s never too late to invest in your relationship, whether that means working together as a couple or taking the first step on your own.
Even if your partner isn’t ready to participate, the Gottman Relationship Adviser gives you practical tools you can use solo to create positive change. Small shifts in your own approach can often inspire meaningful shifts in the relationship as a whole.
The Adviser is a cost-effective, flexible alternative to traditional therapy. With no ongoing appointments, you get lifetime access to research-based guidance and actionable strategies—on your own time, at your own pace.
Strengthening your relationship isn’t just about the partnership, it’s also about improving your own well-being, reducing stress, and boosting your emotional and physical health.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I do it alone or with my partner?
Yes, you can take it alone or with your partner. There are no waitlists, and no need to also be in therapy. Enjoy the convenience of working from the comfort of your home at your own pace. Works on any device.
We are fighting so much or there is a lot distance, how does this help?
The real obstacles in your relationship are often not what you think. The Gottman Relationship Adviser helps you uncover the true issues and provides a proven, workable plan to address them. If you’re on a rocky path, you stand to change the most. Gain access to solutions that work for you by diagnosing the real underlying strengths and opportunities. Then let yourself be guided by the personalized step-by-step plan you´ll receive.
Feeling overwhelmed about where to start?
It can be daunting to improve your relationship. The Gottman Relationship Adviser makes it easy by breaking down the process into manageable steps. Start with the assessment and let the tool guide you with personalized, actionable insights that make progress feel attainable and exciting.
My current situation hurts. Can I really get to a better place? Is it too late?
It is not too late to strengthen your relationship. Whether you’ve noticed problems for a week or a decade, the Gottman Relationship Adviser can help. If you are considering this tool, you likely haven’t thrown in the towel. Our research shows that those who struggle the most often make the most significant gains. Everyone can benefit, and if you’re on a rocky path, you stand to change the most.
Is it complex or easy to use?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser is designed to be user-friendly and straightforward. The step-by-step process ensures you can navigate it with ease, making it accessible for everyone. It is also fun!
Is it software or an app?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser is an online solution that you can access from any device, anywhere, at any time. No downloads or installations required.
Nervous about couples therapy or can’t find a therapist?
Finding a therapist can be daunting, and even if you do find one, you may be placed on a waitlist. Dip your toes in the water with the Gottman Relationship Adviser. This unparalleled approach to relationship wellness is a completely digital self-paced program that can help you and your partner improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere, without ever seeing a therapist.
Already in couples therapy or actively working on your connection, but want more ways to improve your relationship?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser is an excellent addition to your regular therapy sessions. This research-based assessment and solution tool measures your relationship health with a self-assessment, then provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Tired of getting into arguments? Fighting about the same things over and over? Worried your relationship is at risk?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser can help. This complete relationship wellness tool is designed to assess exactly where your relationship needs help, then provides you with a detailed, step-by-step action plan to improve it.
Does your partner refuse to attend couples therapy? Are you feeling helpless and not sure where to turn for relationship advice?
Try the Gottman Relationship Adviser. This unparalleled approach to relationship wellness is a completely digital self-paced program that can help you and your partner improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere, without ever seeing a therapist.
Can I take the assessment alone?
You can use the Gottman Relationship Adviser individually or with your partner to get a full snapshot of your relationship along with a personalized relationship improvement plan based on your unique needs.
Want to do more to improve your relationship, but don’t know where to start?
Try the new and improved Gottman Relationship Adviser.
Curious what kinds of questions are asked in the Adviser?
Here are just a few of the 100+ questions designed for a detailed analysis of your relationship. You’ll answer most questions with true or false or a sliding scale, depending on the question format.
My partner appreciates the things I do in our relationship.
When my partner is feeling bad, I am willing to meet their needs.
My partner discusses problems in a calm and logical manner.
We keep talking about the same issue over and over with no resolution.
When we are burned out or tired, we have ways of becoming renewed together.
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Meet the Gottmans
Drs. John and Julie Gottman have devoted their lives to helping couples build lasting, healthy relationships. Their 50+ years of research powers the Gottman Relationship Adviser, providing you with a tool grounded in decades of expertise.
