Feeling Seen
and Heard
Feel the Power of Good Communication
$149.00 Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Feeling Seen and Heard
Feel the Power of Good Communication
$149.00 Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Struggling With Communication in Your Relationship?
Struggling With Communication in Your Relationship?
When your partner doesn’t truly hear you, it’s easy to feel alone, even when you’re together. But this doesn’t have to be the case!
Discover the online program that helps couples really connect through empathy, presence, and deep listening. Feeling Seen and Heard is your path to deeper emotional intimacy, clearer communication, and lasting connection.
Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, Feeling Seen and Heard is a self-paced digital experience that teaches essential communication skills and helps you grow an emotional connection to feel closer to your partner.
$89.00
$149.00
Feel the Power of
Good Communication!
In every strong relationship, feeling seen and heard is essential. You need to feel that your person truly “gets you”. But life gets busy, communication gets messy, and sometimes it feels like you’re speaking different languages.
Backed by decades of research and designed by the world’s leading relationship experts, this program gives you the tools to move past miscommunication, validate each other’s emotions, and create a deeper emotional bond.
$149.00 Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Listen with empathy and respond with care so that no one feels ignored or misunderstood
Communicate with empathy and clarity, and express your truth clearly and respectfully
Ask better questions and get curious about each other
Recognize and respond to bids for connection
Turn towards your partner to build trust and intimacy
Use the ‘Emotional Bank Account’ to increase positivity
Communicate your needs without conflict
Have stress-reducing conversations that bring you closer
Create a safe space for vulnerability and connection
Rebuild trust through everyday connection
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 13 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to practice new skills
- Entertaining role plays that demonstrate common communication pitfalls and how to fix them
- New audio content for immersive learning
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped more than 100,000 couples build lasting relationships filled with love and respect. Feeling Seen and Heard brings that wisdom to life through practical lessons that help you reconnect, listen deeply, and show up for each other every single day.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
$149.00 Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Feel the Power of
Good Communication!
Product description
In every strong relationship, feeling seen and heard is essential. You need to feel that your person truly “gets you”. But life gets busy, communication gets messy, and sometimes it feels like you’re speaking different languages.
Backed by decades of research and designed by the world’s leading relationship experts, this program gives you the tools to move past miscommunication, validate each other’s emotions, and create a deeper emotional bond.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 13 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to practice new skills
- Entertaining role plays that demonstrate common communication pitfalls and how to fix them
- New audio content for immersive learning
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
Backed by over 50 years of research, the Gottman Method has helped more than 100,000 couples build lasting relationships filled with love and respect. Feeling Seen and Heard brings that wisdom to life through practical lessons that help you reconnect, listen deeply, and show up for each other every single day.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Thank you!
Thank you to the Gottman Institute for providing the tools my partner and I need to create a healthy relationship
Sanchia R.
Gottman Member
Entertaining while being wise
I really like what you have done right here, especially the way in which you make it entertaining while being wise.
K.L.
Gottman Member
Love the role play videos!
We love the Gottman role playing videos that are so relatable and help guide our communication about sensitive subjects. Thank you Gottmans!
Anonymous
Fantastic
Absolutely fantastic. Just a few videos and already transforming our relationship after 10 years of conflict
Anonymous
It taught me a lot
It has been very helpful for me to see where I have been going wrong and only further exasperating situations and taught me better ways in which I can be more loving and patient. This has helped me to become a better listener.
Anonymous
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (13 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
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