Building a
Life Together
From “Me” to “We”
Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Building a Life Together
From “Me” to “We”
Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
From “Me” to “We”:
Start Building Your Life Together
From “Me” to “We”:
Start Building Your Life Together
You’re not just planning a life, you’re choosing a future you both want!
You can build the relationship you’ve always dreamed of with Building a Life Together, a self-paced program from the world’s leading relationship experts, designed to give you all the tools needed to create a strong foundation for lifelong partnership.
Grounded in over 50 years of relationship research, this multimedia experience helps couples move from “me” to “we” by offering science-backed tools to strengthen commitment, communication, and shared purpose.
$89.00
$149.00
Choose Each Other
Every Day
You’ve decided to build a life together, but don’t know where to start?
In Building a Life Together, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the journey of trust and commitment towards lasting love. With shared goals and new dreams, you will experience plenty of fun and play along the way, while never losing sight of the intimacy and romance that brought you together.
Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
What’s Inside this Coach Program?
- 12 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Real-life examples and guided reflections
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
You’ve decided to build a life together, but don’t know where to start?
In Building a Life Together, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the journey of trust and commitment towards lasting love. With shared goals and new dreams, you will experience plenty of fun and play along the way, while never losing sight of the intimacy and romance that brought you together.
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Original price was: $149.00.$89.00Current price is: $89.00.
Choose Each Other Every Day
Product description
You’ve decided to build a life together, but don’t know where to start?
In Building a Life Together, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the journey of trust and commitment towards lasting love. With shared goals and new dreams, you will experience plenty of fun and play along the way, while never losing sight of the intimacy and romance that brought you together.
What’s Inside
this Coach Program?
- 12 exclusive videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
- 6 interactive exercises to apply what you learn
- Real-life examples and guided reflections
- Available in English (Spanish subtitles available)
- Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit anytime
- Digital/online format with printable PDF exercises
Built on Science, Designed for Real Life
You’ve decided to build a life together, but don’t know where to start?
In Building a Life Together, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you through the journey of trust and commitment towards lasting love. With shared goals and new dreams, you will experience plenty of fun and play along the way, while never losing sight of the intimacy and romance that brought you together.
How It Works
- No therapist required; start anytime, from anywhere
- Access material and practise exercises at your own pace
- Use the tools on your own or with your partner
- Optional: pair with a therapist for deeper support through the Gottman Referral Network
Real Couples, Real Results
Frequently Asked Questions
Have More Questions?
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. The Coach provides an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
Should I follow a specific order while working through the programs?
There isn’t a specific order you have to follow when working through the Gottman Relationship Coach programs. The first program in the Gottman Relationship Coach series introduces important foundational concepts of the Gottman Method. Each of the subsequent programs elaborate in more depth on these and other concepts. We recommend reading through the programs and picking the one that best suits what you’d like to work on, then continuing with the additional Gottman Relationship Coach programs for further evolution of those concepts. You can also select “What’s right for me?” for some custom recommendations.
Can I gift a Gottman Relationship Coach program?
Yes! Add the Gottman Coach program to your cart, and when checking out, please check the gift box option and enter the information of your giftee. Continue checking out by entering your required billing and payment information. You will receive a receipt, and your giftee will receive an email with your gift note and instructions on how to login!
Do we need to take this course together as a couple?
While it’s ideal to go through the course as a couple, individuals can benefit too. You’ll gain insights into how you need love expressed and shown and how you show your partner they’re valued. You’ll learn tools you can begin using right away, even if your partner isn’t ready to join yet.
Is this therapy? Will it replace couples counseling?
No, this is not therapy. It’s a self-paced educational experience based on decades of research. It can complement therapy or serve as a starting point for couples who aren’t ready for counseling but want to improve how they express and show love in their relationship.
How long does the course take to complete?
The program includes about an hour of video content (12 short videos [2-3 minutes each]) and 6 interactive exercises. You can complete it at your own pace and revisit materials anytime with lifetime access.
Is the content inclusive and respectful of different relationship types?
Yes, Gottman Relationship Coaches are inclusive for all relationship types. The Gottman Method is grounded in universal principles of emotional safety, respect, and connection. The programs are designed to support couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What is the difference between the Coach Programs and the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program.
As an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness, the Relationship Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place.
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory. This a foundational concept within the Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
The Relationship Adviser measures your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyzes key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and provides a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, all couples can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment and then provides recommendations for improvement.
Learn more about Gottman Relationship Adviser or Gottman Assessment
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Coach?
You can search for a clinician in your area on the Gottman Referral Network (GRN). This network of experienced clinicians is certified in Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your Gottman assessments, working with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
Go to the Gottman Referral Network
Have More Questions?
Your Moments of Love, All in One Place
Start building a relationship where love is part of everyday life.
The All About Love Bundle includes everything you need for a healthy, loving relationship with your partner.
This special collection teaches you how to:
- Build a Stronger Relationship
- Communicate with Love and Understanding
- Keep the Romance Alive for Years to Come
Original price was: $298.00.$129.00Current price is: $129.00.
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