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Love & Relationships

All successful relationships are built on the same premise: The Sound Relationship House theory by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

An Open Letter to Prince Harry and Meghan Markle

Michael Fulwiler

While we could send flowers to Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, the best gift we can give is sound relationship advice.

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Relationships 101: What They Don’t Teach You in School

Chris Dollard

Knowing the scientific facts of how relationships work is a vital life skill to have that will serve you well.

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Seriously. What’s the Point of Marriage?

Nate Bagley

The point of marriage is not happiness. The point of marriage is growth.

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When “Yes” Really Means Yes: Have Great Sex with Affirmative Consent

Katelyn Ewen

Affirmative consent is a recipe for great (and safe) consensual sex.

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The Power of Us: How Men Can Help Women Recover from Sexual Violence

The Gottman Institute

One man asked me to give him as much of my pain as I could because if we carry it together, we will surely make it through.

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Turning Toward Bids Creates Better Workplace Relationships

The Gottman Institute

When we are responsive to the “bids” of people we work with, then we can create positive working relationships.

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Photo of a family around the dinner table for Passover, shown laughing and enjoying each other's company.

What Couples Can Learn from the Four Questions on Passover

Vivian

Questions and curiosity form the foundation of lasting romantic relationships.

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How Anxious Attachment Can Be Healthy in a Relationship

The Gottman Institute

Attachment shapes our capacity to love and the styles of a partner can influence the success or failure of the relationship.

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5 Ways to Make Small Gestures Count in Your Marriage

Terry Gaspard

Give your partner the gift of love and appreciation in small ways every day.

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Create Shared Meaning with a Culture Covenant

Vivian

Sit down with your spouse and ask each other questions about what kind of culture you want to create in your relationship.

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3 Steps to Renewing Dialogue in Your Marriage

3 Steps to Renewing Dialogue in Your Marriage

Jon Beaty

Most couples can follow these same steps to begin to restore a broken connection.

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How to Have Better Conversations with Your Partner, and Just About Anyone Else

How to Have Better Conversations with Your Partner, and Just About Anyone Else

Andy Reynolds

The key to asking engaging questions may be simpler than you think.

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