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The Gottman Relationship
Builder For Professionals

Making it Easier for You to Help Couples

Empower your clients with a set of science-backed, clinically-proven interventions in the form of the Gottman Relationship Builder.
Integrating your unique expertise with access to a full complement of Gottman Therapy copyrighted content, the Gottman Relationship Builder provides professionals like you a powerful tool for more effective couples therapy.

You and your clients receive lifetime access to the entire Gottman module library.

First couple free.

Reduced price of $149.00 per couple with fixed 70% discount.

Register Your Clients Now
View Our Demo

The Gottman Relationship Builder for Professionals

Making it Easier for You to Help Couples

Register Your Clients Now
View Our Demo

Empower your clients with a set of science-backed, clinically-proven interventions in the form of the Gottman Relationship Builder. 

Integrating your unique expertise with access to a full complement of Gottman Therapy copyrighted content, the Gottman Relationship Builder provides professionals like you a powerful tool for more effective couples therapy.

You and your clients receive lifetime access to the entire Gottman module library.

First couple free.

Reduced price of $149.00 per couple with fixed 70% discount.

Built to Support
The Work You Do

Built to Support
The Work You Do

Couples teletherapy is complex; you’re managing two clients, one relationship, and a screen between you. But what happens after the session ends?

The Gottman Relationship Builder bridges the gap and takes your teletherapy to the next level. Combining the power of clinical insight with interactive, easy-to-use Gottman Couples Therapy modules you connect your clients with actual Gottman demonstrations, powerful exercises, and more. You can also assign couples personalized modules and track their progress at the touch of a button. This powerful tool helps clients practice powerful Gottman Method concepts that they can go back to long after a session is over.

Therapy That Lasts

Assign with ease

Control what Gottman modules your couple works on and when with a simple-to-use prescription feature.

Prevent relapse

Use the Builder to reinforce skills and sustain connection.

Track progress

Track your assignment history and monitor the progress of your couples at your discretion, keeping them engaged with reminders.

Personalize your therapy

Send personalized instructions to your couples with each assignment, helping guide them from the comfort of your online portal.

Control what Gottman modules your couple works on and when with a simple-to-use prescription feature.

Use the Builder to reinforce skills and sustain connection.

Track your assignment history and monitor the progress of your couples at your discretion, keeping them engaged with reminders.

Send personalized instructions to your couples with each assignment, helping guide them from the comfort of your online portal.

Tools for
Better Therapy

Tools for Better Therapy

With unrestricted access to the full Gottman module library, the Gottman Relationship Builder includes:

Personalized assignments and progress tracking

Lifetime access to all module materials at a savings of over 70% off of complete Gottman modules price

Whether you’re onboarding new couples, scaling down therapy, or enhancing communication between sessions, the Gottman Relationship Builder helps you deliver lasting results.

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Sample Exercise

This preview shows one partner’s instructions for the “Dream Catcher” exercise, intended to help couples tackle gridlocked problems.

  1. Choose a perpetually gridlocked problem to work on before you do this exercise from the Perpetual Problems and Gridlock section’s Exercise.
  2. Decide who will be the Dream Catcher and who will be the Dream Speaker—later you will switch roles.


When you are the Dream Catcher, all you have to do is read aloud each of the following questions one by one, in the order in which they are written. After you ask a question, the Dream Speaker will do their best to answer it. Be sure to give your partner plenty of time to do so.

Also, it’s important that you not bring up your position on the issue or challenge the speaker’s answer when you are the listener. Just proceed reading aloud each question and listening to your partner’s answers until all the questions have been asked. If you like, you may ask follow-up questions if you are confused by one of your partner’s answers. But be sure your question is only for clarification.
Afterward, it will be time to trade roles.

Here are the questions for the dream catcher to ask:

  • Do you have any core beliefs, ethics, or values that are part of your position on this issue?
  • Is there a story behind this for you, or does this relate to your background or childhood history in some way?
  • Tell me why this is so important to you.
  • What feelings do you have about this issue?
  • What would be your ideal dream here?
  • Is there a deeper purpose or goal in this for you?

 

Hopefully, you now understand each other’s positions on your issue more fully. It’s a great time now or next time to work together on creating a compromise for your issue.

Get Started In Three Simple Steps

Sign up and activate the Relationship Builder

If you haven’t already, start with the free Gottman registration process.
Once approved, the next step is to activate the Builder for your account from your dashboard. For the fixed discount of $149.00, you can purchase the Gottman Builder to use it with your clients. With your first purchase, you will receive access to the entire Gottman module library, as well as one free credit to use with your first couple. This way, you’ll have access to the modules before you pick which ones to assign to your couples.

Invite your couples

To get started inviting your couples, simply provide their names and contact information. If a couple is already using Gottman tools like the Gottman Relationship Checkup, you can begin using the Builder with them by selecting the “Activate” button on their existing record.
Your first couple will be free to invite, so you can use the available credit on your account.

Build away!

Once invited, each partner will receive their own personal invitation via email to complete their profile and login. Once logged-in, they will be able to see specific assignments sent their way and will also be able to access all Gottman modules.
You can prescribe and personalize any module, track progress, send automated reminders, and more. Either from home or in session.

Register Your Clients Now

Get Started
Three Simple Steps

Step 1.
Sign up and activate the Relationship Builder

Sign up and activate the Relationship Builder

If you haven’t already, start with the free Gottman registration process.
Once approved, the next step is to activate the Builder for your account from your dashboard. For the fixed discount of $149.00, you can purchase the Gottman Builder to use it with your clients. With your first purchase, you will receive access to the entire Gottman module library, as well as one free credit to use with your first couple. This way, you’ll have access to the modules before you pick which ones to assign to your couples.

Step 2.
Invite your couples

Invite your couples

To get started inviting your couples, simply provide their names and contact information. If a couple is already using Gottman tools like the Gottman Relationship Checkup, you can begin using the Builder with them by selecting the “Activate” button on their existing record.
Your first couple will be free to invite, so you can use the available credit on your account.

Step 3.
View your Results

Build away!

Once invited, each partner will receive their own personal invitation via email to complete their profile and login. Once logged-in, they will be able to see specific assignments sent their way and will also be able to access all Gottman modules.
You can prescribe and personalize any module, track progress, send automated reminders, and more. Either from home or in session.

Register Your Clients Now

Frequently Asked Questions

The Builder is a powerful relationship building tool designed to empower clinicians with a library of Gottman Method-based modules, engaging clients and reducing relapse. You also gain the opportunity to provide the entire Gottman module library to your clients at a discount of over 70%.
The Gottman Relationship Builder is available to any couples therapy professional registered with Gottman. While training in the Gottman Method is recommended for use of Gottman Connect tools, it is not required. Additional tutorials and resources are available upon account approval.
We understand that each professional works with their clients differently. While you’ll know what’s best for your clients, we recommend bundling the Gottman Builder as a powerful tool to use with and augment your therapy with couples. Your clients will get over 70% off the entire Gottman module library, and you’ll be able to work with them along the way. To help you explain to your clients how to use the Builder, please redirect them to the Gottman Relationship Builder for Couples page.
Yes, your couple gets lifetime access to prescribed Gottman modules! Once purchased for a couple, both partners will retain access to all modules of the Gottman library, including those you assign to them.
If you’re already registered, you can enable the Gottman Builder directly from your Dashboard. For additional details, follow the steps above to get started or contact [email protected] for additional help.
As a professional, gaining access to the Gottman Builder costs $149.00. With your first purchase, you will receive access to the entire Gottman module library, as well as one free credit to use with your first couple. All subsequent couples will be able to be invited for $149.00 per couple. When inviting a couple, there are a variety of payment options available, depending on your model of therapy.
Each Gottman Relationship Builder module is a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection around a specific theme. These modules are relationship skill-building tools, designed specifically by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance the well-being of relationships. You can view and assign any of these modules to your couples based on their unique therapeutic needs to help leverage proven strategies and informational content that each partner can work through at their own pace.
Once you enable the Gottman Relationship Builder for your account, you’ll gain access to all modules in the entire Gottman library. This will allow you to review content before assigning it to your couples.
While training in the Gottman Method is recommended, it is not required. The Gottman Relationship Builder is available to any professional registered with Gottman Connect. Additional tutorials and resources are available upon account approval.
The Builder works with both new and existing couples. When adding a new couple, simply invite them to Gottman Connect using the “Add Couple” flow, opting for “The Builder”. If your couple is already using Gottman Connect with you, you can begin using the Builder with them by selecting the “Activate” button on their existing record.
Yes, the Relationship Builder can work with the Gottman assessment. Starting a couple off with a Gottman assessment is recommended but not required. The Gottman Builder works both with couples who have undergone an assessment as well as those who have not.
We recommend you find what works best for you. Use the Builder to start working with couples that are still on your waiting list, help couples practice powerful concepts during therapy, or use it as a tool when therapy scales down to enhance partner communication and prevent relapse. With the flexible Gottman Relationship Builder, you’ll be able to better provide results that last, helping clients build stronger, more resilient relationships.

Making it Easier for You
to Help Couples

Register your clients now


Making it Easier
for You to Help Couples

Register Your Clients Now
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