Transform Relationship Fights in just 2-3 Minutes
Having the same fight over and over? Break Free in Just Minutes a Day.
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
32 Expert Videos + 13 Relationship-Saving Exercises From Drs. John & Julie Gottman
Having the same fight over and over? Break Free in Just 2-3 Minutes a Day.
- Videos just 2-3 minutes each – Perfect for busy schedules and quick learning
- Stage-specific exercises – Tailored to your unique relationship challenges
- Build lasting conflict habits – Create new patterns that actually stick
- Access anywhere, anytime – Digital format fits your on-the-go lifestyle
Two powerful programs created by relationship science pioneers
The All About Conflict bundle gives you immediate, practical solutions from the world's leading relationship experts:
Stop Arguments Before They Spiral
What You'll Learn: Why you keep fighting about the same things and how to finally break free. The gentle approach to conflict conversations that prevents defensiveness. How to express your feelings in a way your partner can actually hear. Understanding your partner's perspective (and helping them understand yours) Identifying the values and beliefs that drive your conflicts Includes: 15 focused videos (2-3 minutes each). 6 research-based exercises. PDF guides for quick reference. Web-based exercise versions. Role-play demonstrations showing exactly what to say.
Recover and Reconnect Faster
What You'll Learn: The proven 5-step "Aftermath of a Fight" process that resolves tension How to manage "Flooding" when emotions overwhelm you Self-soothing techniques that work in the heat of the moment How to make effective "repair attempts" during conflicts Identifying what your arguments are REALLY about Includes: 17 concise videos. 7 research-based exercises. Step-by-step recovery guides. English with Spanish subtitles available.
Designed for real-world relationships, not theory
This complete program shows you how to make these shifts in your day-to-day relationship.
It’s not about becoming a completely different person – it’s about learning to approach conflict differently at a fundamental level. You can change the patterns of your conflicts and have better fights.
You can grow closer, even in the face of challenges. You have the power to transform your relationship, one step at a time, so we can care for each other, even in conflict.
You are going to have fights. Get equipped for one great price.
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
“The short videos were perfect for my busy schedule – I could watch during a coffee break and use the techniques that same day. We’ve been having the same fight for months, but after trying the ‘gentle startup’ approach, the conversation finally went differently.”
Jordan T.
All About Conflict Customer
“I was surprised how much I learned in just 2-3 minute segments. The exercises were quick but incredibly effective. For the first time, we actually understood what we were really fighting about instead of just going in circles.”
Alex D.
All About Conflict Customer
The quick-win approach to better relationships
Each video is intentionally brief (2-3 minutes) so you can:
- Watch during a quick break
- Apply the technique immediately
- See results in your very next conversation
- Most users report significant improvement after
- implementing just one or two techniques.
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Understand what you're actually fighting about
Dr. John Gottman’s 50+ years of research reveals a surprising truth: 69% of relationship conflicts are PERPETUAL problems that won’t be “solved” through traditional approaches.
The key isn’t solving these issues – it’s learning to discuss them productively. This bundle gives you the exact tools to:
- Transform gridlocked issues into productive conversations
- Identify and express the deeper feelings beneath conflicts
- Create understanding even when you disagree
- Prevent small irritations from becoming major arguments
One investment, lifetime relationship skills
The complete All About Conflict bundle includes:
- Dealing with Conflict program ($149 value)
- Making Up After an Argument program ($149 value)
- All 32 expert videos (just 2-3 minutes each)
- All 13 research-based exercises
- PDF and web-based materials
- Spanish subtitles available
- Lifetime digital access
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
The real cost comparison
All About Conflict Bundle: $149 one-time payment
VS.
Couples Therapy: $2,400-$4,800 (Based on 12 weeks of therapy at $200-$400 per session)
Average Divorce: $15,000-$20,000 (Not including emotional toll and long-term financial impact)
That’s less than 1/16th the cost of a typical therapy process and approximately 1/100th the cost of an average divorce – for relationship skills you’ll use for a lifetime.
Start seeing results today
Research shows the average couple waits six years of unhappiness before seeking help. During that time, the emotional cost and toll on your relationship continues to grow.
Each video is just 2-3 minutes—less time than you spent on your last argument.
Original price was: $298.00.$137.00Current price is: $137.00.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions answered below. More help: Gottman Support Center.
What is the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
The Adviser is an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyze key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection. Improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere.
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. the Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
What is the diference between the Gottman Relationship Adviser and the Coach Programs?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship you select, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program. The Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place. Start with a checkup to find out what you can improve, then follow a personalized, step-by-step plan for your relationship.
How does the Gottman Relationship Adviser analyze and explain my relationship?
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory, created by world-renowned psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman. The Sound Relationship House is a foundational concept within Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, customers can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment, then provides recommendations for improvement. You will also get credit for your original purchase at checkout, just login before you check out.
Do I have to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with my partner?
No, you have the option to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with or without your partner. You can take the Gottman Relationship Adviser alone to learn about yourself and your relationship, or you can invite your partner to take the Adviser as well, even after starting your own self-assessment. After you log in and invite your partner, they can access the Relationship Adviser by registering on Gottman Connect. Once they register, they will have the option to complete the self-assessment to receive their own custom relationship results..
Will my partner and I receive separate results?
Yes, you and your partner complete your own self-assessment and receive separate results based on your unique answers.
What does the assessment portion of the Gottman Relationship Adviser measure?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser can help you gain insight into your overall relationship health, friendship and intimacy, romance, sex, and passion, how you manage conflict, your shared meaning, trust, commitment, and more.
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
You can find a Gottman-trained therapist on The Gottman Referral Network. This Network of experienced clinicians are certified the Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your assessments and work with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.