conflict resolution

Accepting Influence: Find Ways to Say “Yes”

Sinead Smyth

What does "accepting influence" mean?

Three Common Mistakes Couples Make During Conflict

Andrew G. Marshall

If you want to stop arguing all the time, avoid these mistakes

After the Argument: How to Begin Again

Cheryl Fraser

Tools for making up instead of breaking up

The Art of the Mindful Apology: Why ‘Sorry’ is Not Enough

Cheryl Fraser

Three key steps to apologizing with meaning.

Compromise: It’s Not What You Think!

Ken Fremont-Smith

When your desires are in conflict, reconsider what you both really need.

Confronting Kid Conflict with Emotion Coaching

Melissa Benaroya

Help your kids resolve their conflict and handle big emotions.

Healthy Relationships in Practice

Jennifer Pesetsky

Actionable techniques to continually incorporate in your relationship.

Keeping it Together While Social Distancing

Stacy Hubbard

These days, each passing moment brings a strange and new reality. To solidify and strengthen an existing relationship or continue to get to know someone, this is also an opportunity to get curious and focus on the things you appreciate.

The Pursuer-Distancer Dynamic

Terry Gaspard

While all couples need autonomy and closeness, many partners struggle with the pursuer-distancer dance and feel chronically dissatisfied with their degree of intimacy. When the pattern of pursuing and distancing becomes ingrained, the behavior of one partner provokes and maintains the behavior of the other.

Discovering Dr. Gottman as a Conflict Resolution Professional

The Gottman Institute

When it comes to resolving conflict, sometimes even experts need an expert

#AskGottman: Arguments Answers

The Gottman Institute

Homework Assignment: Repair Attempts

The Gottman Institute

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