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Small Things Often

The Small Things Often Podcast Quick tips about relationships Welcome to Small Things Often, a podcast from The Gottman Institute Successful long-term relationships are created through small words, small gestures, […]

Making Gottman Concepts Teachable for Kids

Help kids connect with their peers using Gottman-based exercises

Bridging Love and Breath

The Gottman Approach Enhanced by Breathwork in Couples Therapy

What is My Heart Saying?

Here is a simple exercise to get out of your head and back into your heart.

How S&M Can Strengthen Your Relationship

No, I am not referring to Fifty Shades of Grey sadism and masochism.

Under Stress, We All Regress

A story of how compassion helped a family find relief when stressful conditions activated trauma triggers and coping mechanisms.

How I Almost Quit Couples Therapy—and Love—Until Mindfulness Saved Me

Our ability to observe the workings of our mind, challenge our stories, and see what is really happening is a major predictor of happiness.

Holding Hands with Loved Ones Creates Interpersonal Synchronization

When the couple was sitting next to each other holding hands, the brainwave sync was the strongest. How incredible is that?

Conversational Boundaries without Stonewalling

Difficult conversations can lead to flooding. Here are steps to remain calm while staying present for yourself and your partner.

Manage Conflict – Part 4

Managing conflict isn’t simply about being aware of and intentional about your thoughts and your words.

The Four Horsemen: Stonewalling

The last, but certainly not least, of the Four Horsemen is stonewalling.