The Biggest Gripes About Modern Dating

Dating coach Cora Boyd helps us navigate the perils of modern dating in a meaningful way.

Dating a Man 16 Years Younger Forced Me to Grow Up

The deeper I fell, the more fearful I became, and the more I looked for imperfections.

My Sexual Fluidity Woke Me Up

Judgments dehumanise and minimise the beautiful greyness of being human.

Reclaiming Our Stories From Trauma

Our past may have written the script, but we can write a new script for how we respond in the present.

I Got Married in Jeans but Our Marriage Got Serious

Marriage was a fancy house we hadn’t been invited into and we wanted to dance on the sofa in muddy shoes.

John Gottman and Brené Brown on Running Headlong Into Heartbreak

The Gottmans and Brené Brown give us a map—a macro perspective of the wilderness of our hearts, and the wildness of love.

How to Attract Your Ideal Clients to Your Private Practice

Why it’s important to have a clear ideal client and how to develop a content strategy for your private practice.

I’m the Polyamorist Next Door

How can a life that feels so peaceful and content to me be so nauseating to others?

A Letter to My Younger Self on My Wedding Day

Here are a few things I’ve learned about love and life over the last 23 years of marriage.

How to Market Your Private Practice

The three things you need to understand to be a Master of Marketing.

How to Build Your Client List

Follow these five steps to build your client list.

How Coming Out Saved Our Marriage

When Will and Oscar got married, they were both still in the closet.

ScreenTime: From Tuning In to Turning Towards

We were asked by ABC News to consult for their two-hour special report with Diane Sawyer.

Gottman Love and Sexuality Glossary

Our guide on combining forms used to express different types of love and relationships, and how you may see them used.

Can Words Really Hurt Me?

Sticks and stones may break my bones, but can words really hurt me?