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"Happily ever after" is not by chance, it's by choice — the choice each person in a relationship makes to remain open, remain curious, and, most of all, to keep talking to one another. From award-winning marriage researcher and bestselling author Dr. John Gottman and fellow researcher Julie Gottman, Eight Dates offers an ingenious and simple-to-implement approach to effective relationship communication. Here are the subjects that every serious couple should discuss: Trust. Family. Sex and intimacy. Dealing with conflict. Work and money. Dreams, and more. And here is how to talk about them — how to broach subjects that are difficult or embarrassing, how to be brave enough to say what you really feel.
There are also suggestions for where and when to go on each date — book your favorite romantic restaurant for the Sex & Intimacy conversation (and maybe go to a yoga or dance class beforehand). There are questionnaires, innovative exercises, real-life case studies, and skills to master, including the Four Skills of Intimate Conversation and the Art of Listening. Because making love last is not about having a certain feeling — it's about both of you being active and involved. (Workman Publishing)
The Gottmans wrote Eight Dates: Essential Conversation for a Lifetime of Love in collaboration with Doug Abrams and Dr. Rachel Carlton Abrams. Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman and Dr. Rachel Carlton Abrams are unfortunately unavailable to join us for this event.Registration Site