… was a tapestry you wove together, filled with dreams and aspirations. Now, you shy away from discussions about what’s next, as if afraid to jinx whatever fragile harmony remains. It’s a sign you’re hedging your bets, unwilling to fully invest in a future that feels uncertain. A 2021 study from the Gottman Institute found that couples who frequently plan their future tend to have higher relationship satisfaction.
The absence of future plans creates a void, a silent acknowledgment that perhaps the end is nearer than either of you wants to admit. By avoiding these discussions, you rob the relationship of its …