could see it actually working they would have to do a lot of therapy a lot of working out of that roach motel as relationship expert john gottman calls it oh yeah but you know if she is truly remorseful and really realizes like i would never forsake you in this way again i would never hurt you in this way again i’ll do anything to fix it it could work but you can’t have op holding a grudge being better having resentments the scars like it would take a lot of work but and the thing is about this too is that like ok let’s say that she messes up again even with therapy let’s say she does something again that she thinks might make her lose him she might be more likely to lie because she doesn’t want to lose him like now her