D is for Defensiveness

Contact
My Account
Cart
0

A research-based approach to relationships

search
Couples
Close
Parents
Close
Singles
Close
Professionals
Close
About
Close
Blog
Close
My Account
Gottman Help Center

D is for Defensiveness

D is for Defensiveness

Defensiveness is a wicked game. But it’s winnable.

The Gottman Institute

Copy and paste this URL into your WordPress site to embed

<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="dSkHmbYVhv"><a href="https://www.gottman.com/blog/d-is-for-defensiveness/">D is for Defensiveness</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.gottman.com/blog/d-is-for-defensiveness/embed/#?secret=dSkHmbYVhv" width="600" height="400" title="&#8220;D is for Defensiveness&#8221; &#8212; The Gottman Institute" data-secret="dSkHmbYVhv" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
/* <![CDATA[ */
/*! This file is auto-generated */
!function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document);
/* ]]> */
</script>

Copy and paste this code into your site to embed

Couples

The Art and Science of Love
Gottman Couples Store
Gottman Connect
Gottman Love Notes
Marriage Minute
Private Couples Retreats

Parents

Bringing Baby Home for Parents
Emotion Coaching
Gottman Parents Store

Professionals

Online Learning
Get Certified
Gottman Connect
Gottman Relationship Checkup
More Training
Gottman Pro Store

About

Our Mission
Drs. John and Julie Gottman
Research Overview
The Gottman Method
Affiliate Programs

Related Sites

Gottman Referral Network
Gottman Connect
The Art and Science of Lovemaking
Published Journal Articles

Support

Gottman Help Center
Gottman Speakers and Consultants
Reset Account Password
Manage Email Subscriptions

Follow

Facebook
Twitter
YouTube
Pinterest
Instagram
LinkedIn

©2024 The Gottman Institute. All Rights Reserved.

Terms, Privacy, and HIPAA Policy

0