The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

By Ellie Lisitsa

Being able to identify the Four Horsemen in your conflict discussions is a necessary first step to eliminating them and replacing them with healthy, productive communication patterns.

Two Good Reasons to Save Your Marriage

By The Gottman Institute

You’d be surprised what a good relationship can do for you

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

By Vagdevi Meunier

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The Science of Love

The Gottman Institute

In his TEDx Talk, John Gottman explains how his scientific research has created a new understanding of love relationships. ...

Cannabis and Couples: What Does the Research Say?

Robert Navarra

Certified Gottman Therapist and Master Addiction Counselor Dr. Robert Navarra reviews the research on cannabis use. ...

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: An Interview with Lori Gottlieb

Michael Fulwiler

Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and author of the New York Times best seller, "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone." ...

A Review of the Research on Domestic Violence

The Gottman Institute

A letter to the editor of The New York Times from the desk of John Gottman, Ph.D. and Julie Schwartz Gottman, ...

The ‘BestMarriages’ Story

The Gottman Institute

How two regular guys built one of the largest couples counseling centers in Canada. ...

Before I Was a Couples Therapist, I Was a Rabbi

The Gottman Institute

As a rabbi turned couples therapist, I find myself living in two wonderful worlds, continuing to build bridges between both. ...

The SimplePractice Story

The Gottman Institute

During his training to become a Marriage and Family Therapist, Howard Spector couldn't find practice management software that met his needs, ...

How to Sail Through Certification in Gottman Method Couples Therapy

Mary Beth George

If you’re considering your own journey toward becoming a Certified Gottman Therapist, here are some tips to sail through the process. ...

Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence

The Gottman Institute

The capacity to be aware enhances our health and relationships with one another. Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. introduces his pioneering, science-based ...

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