According to Dr. Gottman, straight couples may have a lot to learn from gay and lesbian relationships.
Men, you have the power to make or break a relationship.
Being open to influence requires a man to let go of avoidant strategies like distancing, attacking, and defensiveness.
Both husbands’ and wives’ presence or lack of “we-ness” during an oral history interview is a strong indicator of whether a couple will divorce or not.
From 1980 to 1983, Dr. Gottman and his close friend and colleague Dr. Robert Levenson worked together to study the physiological and affective predictors of change in relationship satisfaction.
Build Love Maps, Share Fondness and Admiration, and Turn Towards Instead of Away build the fourth story of the Sound Relationship House: The Positive Perspective.
When David is tempted to say, “I’ll do it myself!” he reminds himself to ask the question, “How can we do this together?”
Read about all the exciting happenings at The Gottman Institute in April!
“Love” is the obvious word here. But with all due respect to love, it’s probably a little too obvious for my tastes. Don’t get me wrong, I love love, but it often clouds the real issue at the heart of a relationship.
Today on The Gottman Relationship Blog, we continue The Research with a six-year longitudinal study performed by Dr. Gottman and fellow University of Washington researcher Sybil Carrère.
In today’s posting, we’d like to share with you an article that recently came to our attention. It was posted a few days ago in the Midland Daily News, and discusses Dr. Gottman’s research on bidding that we have been focusing on in recent weeks!
Our guide on combining forms used to express different types of love and relationships, and how you may see them used.
Don’t just balance your work with your family, build it around them.
If you’re considering your own journey toward becoming a Certified Gottman Therapist, here are some tips to sail through the process.
Check out what happened at The Gottman Institute this September!
Dr. Gottman has discovered that successful marriages use repair attempts like golfers use mulligans.
Here are the 10 most read Gottman Relationship Blog articles from the past year.
Check out what happened at The Gottman Institute in the month of November.
Check out what happened at The Gottman Institute in October.
Find out how well you truly know your partner.