Phone Apps

Your phone can help you with your relationship!   

Visit the iPhone Apps by The Gottman Institute page on iTunes - or easier yet, click the icons below to make a difference today.

The app that started it all:  Love Maps!

Give Appreciation     Give Appreciation

Giving and receiving appreciation is a great way to build friendship and closeness. Expressing thanks - even for small things - is powerful stuff!  Try these out on your partner or friends and watch for impressive results.
  Child Love Map Child Love Map

Think you know your child?  The 100 questions in this app challenge parents to create "love maps" for their sons and daughters.  With these specially-designed inquires, you'll develop a greater understanding of what makes your child tick.  A more rewarding relationship and family life stem from finding  the answers to these "emotionally intelligent" questions!

Fun and Play  
Fun and Play 

All work and no play makes life unbearable!  It's also unhealthy for people and partnerships.  Purposely create play in your lives by trying these suggestions for fun things to do together. Don't think too much - just pick something and do it!   
  expressing needs
Expressing Needs

One of the myths about love relationships is that we should instinctively know what our partner needs. But nobody is a mind reader, no matter how much they love us. Once you know what your own needs are, stating them in a positive way with the help of this app gives your partner a chance to shine for you!

I Feel  
I Feel


It's not always easy to tell your partner how you are feeling.  Sometimes we just don't have the words!  This app is loaded with 234 emotional states to help you identify feelings and build connection with your partner when you don't know what to say.
  Open Ended Questions
Open-Ended Questions

Life is often so hectic that we lose touch with the heart and soul of our partner.  "Did you change the baby?" or What's for dinner?" are not necessarily inquiries that make you feel deeply connected. This app from The Gottman Institute contains a series of meaningful questions that uncover your hopes and dreams as individuals and partners, bringing you closer together  

  Affection and Lovemaking  
Affection and Lovemaking

Get closer to your partner with these suggestions for expressing affection - while making love or just to spice up your everyday routine
      
Sex Questions to Ask Your Man

Being tongue-tied or shy about sex is no excuse for being a so-so lover. These bold, brave and explicit questions enable you to co-create the kind of sexual experiences that bring both of you to the most satisfying encounters.   

  Sex Questions to Ask Your Woman
Sex Questions to Ask Your Woman

What do women want out of sex? The key is in the answers to these bold, explicit questions, designed to help you create the best possible sexual encounters for both of you. Are you courageous enough to ask?
   
Love Talk for Guys

Most women love to hear if their partners are enjoying sex. Put words to your pleasure and increase your intimacy tenfold! You'll know exactly what to say with the suggestions in this sexy app.   


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Apps for iPhones
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